Thank you, your thoughts will be greatly appreciated.
Thank you so much for your kind words.
For what it is worth, let me add two points to the extended discussion. One, remember to always counsel for both reasons, GOOD and bad. Soldiers are conditioned that a DA Form 4856 is a punishment and nothing is further from the truth. Use that tool for recording all things out of the norm. By this, I mean, when they do something bad and the 1SG wants their counseling on his/her desk by lunch, remember to counsel them for the outstanding things they do as well. As much as bad records hurt, good records help, especially for awards and so forth. You may need a justification for an AAM someday and pulling the counseling packet may provide exactly what you need. It is an incredible motivator to receive a positive or congratulatory counseling, I received one as a CPL and you can ask all the soldiers I have ever led how they felt if they ever received one.
Second, Mentorship! You mentioned having seen bad leadership. You know what that looks like. Seek true leaders and learn from others mistakes so you don't have to make them. Actively get advice from admirable leadership and steer clear of poor leaders. Live the example you want others to follow. Leadership says, "Follow Me!" not "Move out!".
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