Posted on May 4, 2021
Arianna Cortez
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Hello, I am 17 and hoping to join the Air Force after high school. This is TMI but I need answers. I had a suicide attempt at 13. I was practically a kid. I was young and I didn't know what to do. I took like two bottles of Tylenol. After that I did counseling and did all my therapy sessions. I was never an addict or went to a mental hospital. I've never felt suicidal since then. I will be absolutely devastated if they don't approve my records. I just wished I could go back and told myself that everything will be ok because that will forever affect if i could get certain jobs. Also If they don't approve my record will I be able to apply for a waiver? How does that work. My recruiter said Its my choice to tell them but I'd rather tell them the truth than in the future having them find out and becoming dishonorable.
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SFC Kelly Fuerhoff
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Don't lie about anything - no matter what a recruiter says. Things always have a way of catching up. It's better to be up front and honest ultimately. If they find out something later, especially if you have to get a security clearance and it comes up in the background investigation, it won't be useful.

No one on here can tell you the likelihood of what could or couldn't happen. Ultimately, the question of a waiver are for your recruiter if you needed one. My opinion - be honest. If you get denied, it's better that it happened up front than it coming back to bite you in the ass years down the road.
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SFC Kelly Fuerhoff Great response.
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Solid answer and 100% the truth!!!!!
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SFC Retention Operations Nco
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Mental health waivers are very closely scrutinized now more than ever. This exact scenario is why military kids are considered to be at a disadvantage for military service if they've ever received treatment for mental health while in the military health care system. All their records are automatically available to the MEPS. Going forward with a mental health record you are automatically going to need a waiver, and the Air Force is very tight fisted with the number of waivers they grant a year. Of course if you're a military dependent who was treated in Tricare you don't have a say in it anyway.

What should you do? Well nobody here can answer that. But I do know that not all my medical records made it into my MEPS file and I loved every minute of my career. That's not an endorsement for bad behavior, just a fact the military isn't filled with Biy Scouts
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SSgt Dan Montague
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It has been a while, but attempted suicide was disqualifying. As stated in another answer, don't lie about it. It may come back to haunt you and can get your recruiter in trouble.
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