Posted on Mar 30, 2024
SSG Stryker Systems Maintainer
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A female CPT keeps calling my husband to talk. She said she wants to hang out and drink with us but hasn’t made any effort to be my friend. Shes also currently having a sexual relationship with a E6 who’s been in a relationship for over 4 years. Shes constantly calling him to the point where we were arguing. After arguing he blocked her number because he doesn’t want to get a divorce because of her. Well a few weeks after blocking her number she shows up on our door step to “surprise” us because she was “in the area.” She drills 45 mins away from where we live. I told her she wants welcome and I didn’t know how she got our address. She made an excuse and said she got it from one of the 4th of July parties (we’ve never had a 4th of July party at our house). I was wondering if it was possible for her to get it by looking me or my husband’s information up or get it from S1. My husband has been out for a little over a year and I’ve been out for 2. Also is there anything I can do about this?
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SGM Erik Marquez
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SSG (Join to see) While anything is possible, the more likely solution is, the offending person just searched your name or number.
In 30 seconds I found your address, husband's name, social media user names, 8 phone numbers, relatives, neighbors, 11 email addresses and more. Same kind of info for your Husband.

Contact the Servicemembers unit commander, and suggest they can deal with the issue, or the next senior commander and the State Guard IG can. Include in the written letter of concern the names and contact info for both of the senior folks.
Send it registered mail, and request a written response from the unit commander. Give a reasonable timeline for the commander to look into the issue and respond. Be polite and professional, remember, the commander is not currently the issue.
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SSG Carlos Madden
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This is true. If you know more than 2 pieces of information about someone, you can basically find anything with Google and a few minutes of time.
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SSG Roger Ayscue
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You could stomp a mud hole in her ass; my wife would, and in an efficient, orderly military fashion.
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SGM G3 Sergeant Major
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While a few have pointed out this would have been pretty easy through social media, there are a couple ways to do this in systems of record in the Guard.
In DPRO, the Soldier Locator Tool retains some profile information after you separate, to include all of your Guard gain and loss dates, as well as your last grade, PMOS, unit of assignment and home of record at the time of separation.
Any AGR in your state could do that.
IPERMS also retains records, and your last unit, BN, BDE and the state G1 would be able to access your iPERMS records, everything up to your separation from the Guard of that state.
If this CPT is not an AGR, it probably would have been easier to use social media and address/phone number search sites like whitepages, zlookup or a dozen other sites.
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