Posted on Dec 7, 2015
Capt Bob Abbott
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I've been referred to a lot as "sir" and "Captain" here on Rally Point, but I've been out now for eight years. I'm just Bob. It makes me uncomfortable, not because I'm ashamed of my rank when I was in, but rather because as a veteran I feel like I have the same rank as all other vets, regardless of TIS or rank. What are your thoughts on this?
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CWO3 Us Marine
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Hey Bob. Just don't call me late for chow.
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SPC Joshua Ulch
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You earned your rank, so why be ashamed or embarrassed? Own it. You earned it.
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CPT Senior Instructor
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I get that too. I think it has a lot to do with being an officer.
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SGT Richard H.
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For me, "Sir" predates the Military. I still do it. Even when I answer the phone and someone says "Hey, Rich, this is Bob Chambless", you're likely to get a cheerful "Yes, Sir"
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SFC Motor Transport Operator
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no i much appreciate this , and we all should be proud of what we are and once were.
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SrA David Steyer
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I don't care, just don't call me late for dinner. LOL
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PO1 John Miller
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Capt Bob Abbott
The main reason I normally address people by rank here on RP is because I "tag" them in my posts, but I agree with you.

I get kind of weirded out/annoyed when I show my retired ID to come on base and people say "Thank you Petty Officer" or even worse "Sir," LOL. I'm not an Officer dammit, nor am I really IT1 Miller anymore. Sure I could technically be recalled since I am still part of the "Fleet Reserve" but since I'm not active duty anymore, John will work just fine.
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Sgt Field Radio Operator
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Edited 10 y ago
I have no problem calling you Bob, now that I know you prefer it. It seems that a lot of people call me Sir or Mr., which I do not care for. I refer to officers as sir, ma'am, or by their rank, out of respect.
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MSG Wally Carmichael
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Great question Bob. When I drive through the gate of a base, I prefer being addressed as MSG over Sir or "Thank you for your service". On RP, Wally works best for me.
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CPT Infantry Officer
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This is a great question. I don't feel uncomfortable being addressed by the rank I held while serving. I am out of the service now, but I recognize the context of the website. The context of the website is military. So, I roll with it.
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