Posted on Jan 21, 2015
Does it bother you to hear "Thank you for your service!"?
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All active duty stand down(but don't walk away, this will effect you later) Veterans does it ever bother you to hear that? "Thank you for your service" I apologize but it mmmm...bugs me something awful, telling me " your done go sit down and grow feeble " needs changed to something that endures like we do something like "YO JOE!" or another saying meaning get outta my way theres work to do and I ain't done yet! Forgive if I wasted your time, just wondering.
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I am grateful when the young people say it because they have been taught by someone. Better than what we got when we came home. I respond with Thanks for your support.
The ones who spit at us are the same kind (maybe even the same ones) who attacked Henry Kissinger the other day.
The ones who spit at us are the same kind (maybe even the same ones) who attacked Henry Kissinger the other day.
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It doesn't bother me at all, although it does make me feel odd for hearing it because I merely see my service as a flightline/ISO crew chief who didn't really do anything heroic.
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Actually, it does not bother me at all. It sure would have been nice to hear it in 60s/70s. I simply respond with thank You.
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Yes. First of all, in defending the nation, I am doing what I should do as a citizen. Why should I be thanked for doing my duty? Second, when I was growing up, my father and most of the men of his generation were WW II and Korea veterans. Then there were lots of Vietnam veterans around. Then I and many of my friends joined & served. The older generation defended me when I couldn't defend myself, then I defended them when they were too old to defend themselves. Who was supposed to thank who? Third, when someone who hasn't served thanks me, I get the feeling that they are just trying to assuage their guilt for not having served.
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Bottom line is, anyone that did not serve will never really understand what we went through. Some went through a lot more than others, but do I get tired of hearing it? hell no. I am very proud that I served my country and people who make that comment are perhaps trying in their own way to understand what we went through or perhaps they feel regret that THEY did not step up when they had the chance. I don't feel that it makes me feel "feeble" an any way...on the contrary, my service made me strong, made me savvy, helped prepare me for the rest of life and helped me rise to the top and feel like nothing else in life could ever get me down after what I went through.
Embrace it, own it and appreciate it...be PROUD to have served, be PROUD to be a Vet!
For all you Vietnam era Vets, you guys had it worse than any American military after you came home and I would personally like to say to you "Thanks for your Service!"
Embrace it, own it and appreciate it...be PROUD to have served, be PROUD to be a Vet!
For all you Vietnam era Vets, you guys had it worse than any American military after you came home and I would personally like to say to you "Thanks for your Service!"
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I don't like it either. It puts me in the spot and makes me something I'm not. Almost like they'd take it back if they knew I never had to carry a weapon and the like.
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SSgt James Guy
I had a hard time when I came back out of guilt. Guilt that I wasn't in the bush. After a while I came to realize that in a way that I did the same thing. MY JOB. I did what I was assigned to just as I did when assigned to Reserve Defense in Nam. Rode shot gun with Security Police on my nights off.
I enlisted before I got drafted. LOL But when they pulled the lottery numbers the first time I came up number 7 and I was in the Central Highlands.
I enlisted before I got drafted. LOL But when they pulled the lottery numbers the first time I came up number 7 and I was in the Central Highlands.
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Whenever I am greeted with "thank you for your service", I answer back, Did you serve? More times than not they are not Veterans. When I hear the reply of NO, I ask "Why didn't you serve"? It leaves them dumbfounded and I smile and walk away. Veterans are a special breed. When I hear non military folks speak of the Military, it really pisses me off that they THINK they knew what we went through, what we saw and how we persevered through triumph and tragedy. Even our Commander in Chief has no freaking clue about Military life.
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SSG Randall Ford
VERY GOOD BROTHER! I'm so dumfounded I don't know what to say but you hit just right. I'd love to see the faces when you do that to them. Excellent
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I get tired of the statement because in a lot of cases I think people are told to say that when they recognize a veteran. For example, TSA at airport security check-in's. And hearing other retirees say Thank You For Your Service seems odd for some reason.
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