Posted on Jul 9, 2014
Does or has anyone felt a feeling of restlessness after they separated from active duty?
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It still feels as if I'm on leave but just doesn't feel right. maybe i need to start a new hobby or go to school to keep my mind occupied.
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For me, there was a loss of purpose and a loss of connection. This happened on about the second week. I no longer had to call my Soldiers each evening, prepare for the next day. Those things were in the past. It is an adjustment. I had to find a new passion. For some this might be a hobby or a new job.
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Everybodys answers on here are great. I guess like y'all said keep occupied and take it day by day. I got out on a medical board after 8 years, now I'm taking this time to get close to family from all that time i missed out. I think it has to do a lot with the medications I'm on, because there are days when i don't even want to get up. thank you so much for everyones input and feedback. I really appreciate it, also I vocabulary is different trying to convert back to civilian i have a hard time explaining stuff to people.
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I'm still on my my few remaining weeks of transition leave but it's been hard and a blessing at the same time. I can focus on what I want to do, for instance learning to play the guitar, which I haven't started yet. The adjustment hasn't been too difficult and sometimes I get a bit stir crazy. One of the things you'll notice is you don't have to be in a rush to get everything accomplished.
In another related topic, I find myself more and more on Rally Point, for me
its how I stay connected to something that's been a part of me for almost a quarter century. Eventually you'll find your groove, just takes some time getting used too.
In another related topic, I find myself more and more on Rally Point, for me
its how I stay connected to something that's been a part of me for almost a quarter century. Eventually you'll find your groove, just takes some time getting used too.
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SGT Mitch McKinley
I agree whole-heartedly.
I find myself keeping it open in the background while I am at work to see what's going on.
I was medically separated 10 years ago after 8+ years on AD, and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't find myself struggling with being out. This September would be 18 years had I not ben separated.
I actually work in a bullpen/Cubicle area of my company and 5 of the guys around me are former military and 3 of them are now on RP. So that helps a little.
I find myself keeping it open in the background while I am at work to see what's going on.
I was medically separated 10 years ago after 8+ years on AD, and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't find myself struggling with being out. This September would be 18 years had I not ben separated.
I actually work in a bullpen/Cubicle area of my company and 5 of the guys around me are former military and 3 of them are now on RP. So that helps a little.
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