Posted on Feb 23, 2018
SGT Joseph Gunderson
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Whether it be on social media or in person at the local Veteran Service Organization (VSO), does the rank that you left the service with and the ranks that other veterans left the service with play into how you view, associate with, or speak to other veterans? The highest rank that I ever had was Sergeant and I still find that I address those that I know were officers as "sir" or "ma'am". (I also address all generations of older veterans as "sir" or "ma'am".) I still hold a certain level of respect for all those who attained a rank higher than I did, but I do speak to them as if we could have been old friends. I consider us all on almost a completely even field after leaving the service. Does anyone believe any different?
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MSgt Sidney Lichter
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Not really; as a retired E-7, I pall around on an equal basis with all grades.
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MAJ Matthew Arnold
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My American Legion chapter has all kinds of characters and I think all kinds of ranks and services, but I have never asked and don't care because we are all friends and veterans.
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SSG Harry Herres
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My father retired as a Col. I respected him always as the Col. OSS in wwII first advisers in Vietnam 1956. I went to Nam 13 years later. You respect the man for what he did and always remember their sacrife
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SSG Harry Herres
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Anyone who served gets at all the respect in the world. Thank only counts! Rank remains, but we all did our job.Thank you for your service
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SP5 Ron Davis
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No, you view people as people. Be true to yourself and most people will follow suit. Smiles open a lot of doors. Nothing wrong with having respect for everyone, you can only hope the respect is returned.
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SSG Lauro Jimenez
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It does only if the person is retired. I'm retired SSG, so I still am a SSG. That is my title, like Dr. ,Professor etc.
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SCPO Religious Programs Specialist
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Addressing Veterans at first, with Sir or Mam, is the proper thing to do
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SGM Thomas Terebesi Sr
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I look at anyone who achieved a high rank in the military as I would someone who became a CEO of a large company. I also admire all that have served their country regardless of rank.
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SSG Everett VanOrden
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I only care about their rank when I catch them lying about it.
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PO1 Bill Adams
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No, and Yes.
We are all just Veterans now.
But, I still refer to a former CO who I am on Facebook friends with as Capt. Dave.

At reunions, I sometime refer to shipmates by the rank or rate I knew them as, like Boats, or Chief, or Capt, or Asshole. but it's more a "term of endearment".
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