Fairness of GO#1

It's a complex issue with a simple answer:  Because it is easier that way. 
We're assuming a "hetero-normative" standard in a male dominated environment and that leads us to focus our attention on heterosexual man-and-woman relationships with special accommodations for the minority party in that potential relationship:  Women.

It's not about fairness or deeper philosophical underpinnings of habitation policy.  It's about making the mission happen with the least friction in the form of sexual harassment/assault, pregnancy, morale, and everything else while the civilian paymasters are breathing down our higher's back to make sure we don't get any bad headlines from down range that lose us the public relations war at home.

Here's my personal preference:  A gender neutral environment with coed lodging, hygiene facilities, strict punishment for sexual harassment from anyone, and an end to adultery as a UCMJ offense as long as it doesn't even create the appearance of undue influence on the CoC.  But I'll take what I can get.

I think that as with all the other rules and regulations that have or need to be updated with the repeal of DADT and the allowance and recognition of same sex marriages, this is another that needs to readdressed and updated, but the question how do you do that, it is not that you could ask if someone is homosexual or if they are attracted to their roommates to determine housing assignments.

If sexual preference shouldn't matter then it shouldn't matter for heterosexuals either...correct?

     This is an interesting question and one that many of my Soldiers and peers have pondered as well. Unfortunately, I don't have an answer to it. I can tell you that I don't think the military is going to take a route that will cost more money by building a separate latrine facility for gay service members. That just isn't feasible at this point in time and really would assist in fostering the climate of tolerance that we are trying to create. I don't think they will take on added expense to proved a single occupant rooming arrangement either. That would be more costly than the latrine thing. How do we create a policy that is "fair" across the board. I really don't know. That is a very difficult undertaking and will be sure to anger one group or another regardless of what the policy is. As an openly gay Soldier, I can tell you that I am just as uncomfortable in those situations as a straight person is. Mostly due to preconceived notions that every gay person wants to have sex with every other person they meet. which is ENTIRELY FALSE by the way. But, because of this, I am uncomfortable showering with other guys and rooming with them too. I think that there must be a way to bring this policy into a fairer light but, I can't think of how to do so. Honestly, if you were to try to implement a policy that would, everyone would have to be in their own single occupant quarters and no one would be able to be in a room with a shut door. Again, not feasible. So what is the solution? I guess this one will have to be one that simply isn't 100% fair to everyone. Unfortunately, sometimes we just have to "suck it up and drive on". There isn't a good solution for this question that I can see.

That is a pretty good point. But I don't think this is going to change much. I was deployed with a married couple and they shared a CHU. I don't think this is really an issue. I recall having a PSG that was really paranoid about this. After one of his many rants I asked him if he really though if a gay soldier would even want a burnt out old man like you. He really didn't have a comeback. I have served with gay soldiers and we pretty knew that he was gay. It didn't matter. He was a brother, with a great sense of interior design. None the less you wouldn't care if your brother was gay. You  may not want him to take you to a bar but it really shouldn't matter. 

That is a good point and a potentially legal conundrum.   Gays might say that you are discriminating against them when they can close the doors and straights cannot.  You know I never thought about it.   I am sure there is a political answer to this,  especially amongst active duty people.

I see individual rooms (or at least divided rooms) and individual latrines (again, at least divided) as the future of acceptable accommodations in garrison, but I know that will take many, many years to accomplish... and downrange... well, sometimes you just have to make the best of what you have...