Posted on Jul 6, 2019
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So I just found out that if I'm married, and to go my first duty station without my family, I still have to live off post and receive the BAH based on my duty station's BAH rate instead of where my dependents live?
My wife most likely won't be able to move with me because she has to take care of our mother, so my concern is I have to use my BAH to pay off for the housing at my duty station while supporting my wife financially back home at the same time. Is there anyways I can request a room in the barrack and receive the BAH for my wife at the same time?
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Even if you requested a room in the barracks, you would lose all your BAH. You should look into renting a room at your next place.
If you and your spouse are providing the majority of her support, you may be able to make her your dependent
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SSG Byron Howard Sr
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I've seen that done.
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SSG Byron Howard Sr
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Make your mother in law a dependent and if there are any special need people involved let housing know.
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SPC (Join to see) SSG (Join to see) provided you with an answer in your previous post.

Since you are married you will get BAH for your duty station and not where you wife lives and since you are married you will have to live in a house and use your BAH. Units don’t let married people live in barracks. So if she is gonna live in California you better find a cheap apartment to live at or she needs to move with you PVT Quang Nguyen

According to the link below, it is unlikely that you would be allowed a room in the barracks.

https://www.thebalancecareers.com/what-the-recruiter-never-told-you-3332705
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