Have you ever been embarrassed or shamed by someone else's professionalism?

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Quite a few incidents come to mind, and alcohol was involved in nearly all of them. The "creature" can really take us down a notch. I make horrible decisions when I drink and finally decided to return my Olympic Silver Medal for partying. I still make bad decisions, but I remember them without a headache....lol.

Embarrassment is a strong motivator...

I have been embarrassed by other's lack of professionalism, especially those senior to me that tend to forget they are forever in the spotlight. Never forget your junior troops are consistently looking up to you and watching the examples you set. I am far from perfect as a leader, I have been told I am "rough around the edges" but at the same time I am "approachable and realistic."

One of the best examples or ways to encourage professionalism is to lead by example. Your military bearing and how others perceive you is established by the choices you make and the way you interact with others. Being a leader is not just about knowing your job but also knowing people, as well as being able to differentiate between the two. It's about caring about your people and sometimes having to make that hard choice but ultimately it is about guiding your Sailors (or equivalent) in the right direction as future leaders.

Yes. I will not name names but I was TDY and the entire class went out to eat. A SGM I knew for awhile and respected was with us. He started to drink and then started to hit on several junior females. I left at that point. That became a reason I never drank at military events after that and attended few. Becuase it is hard for me to respect someone who doesn't know their limit and cannot control themselves.

As a Cadet I had a similar event happen. It was another cadet. He just looked up and said, “If we don’t, some soldier is going to have to do this”

I feel that way whenever I get to work and a subordinate has a fresh hair cut and I have like this two week old hair style. I am like " I am slipping ".

Have I ever been embarrassed or shamed by someone else's actions...someone at 1600 Pennsylvania Ave, continually embarrasses this country, our allies, and our Armed forces. Not to mention the lack of class this individual brings to an office they hold. Insulting veterans, insulting children, insulting Federal Employees, so yes I do get embarrassed, because at one point I support this person. Won't make that mistake twice.

Only every day...

It happened to me early in my career as well. I think for those that strive to be professional, those lessons are remembered for life.

The person setting the exame didn't even say anything to me. He knew me and knew that my own embarrassment would be more motivating than anything that he could say...