Have you ever been given the look of "You don't train legs"?

Size is to a point. Those who look at weight lifting and body building is based on proportion. If they see you have a bigger upper body but small lower body, it make your body composition very uneven. I've seen it before and it can be really eye-opening, so to speak.
It can be judgmental but you just have to brush that off. You do you. If you want to grow your calves, then do it. If not, you keep doing you. You are your worst critic when it comes to your body, work and mental state. If you see yourself looking great, then where is the room for someone else's judgement?

So very true. I know many people with small legs and are very strong. It's not about how you look but what you can do.

You can train muscles somewhat to convert slow-twitch/endurance muscle fibers to fast-twitch/power/strength with hard work sometimes. Calves are mostly slow-twitch and will require a lot of work to build for some. Also, training for strength and training for mass aren't always one in the same.

Short answer - no.