How do I maintain professionalism?

It's very important that you handle this situation in a tactful manner or it could get bad for you very quickly.

Have you considered speaking to the Staff Sergeant about your concerns one-on-one while tensions are low? That would likely render better results than waiting until he's upset again to approach the subject.

SrA Wait, responding professionally is generally fairly easy since we are all taught how to address others within the military especially by rank. Your question is not so much responding professionally but in keeping your emotions in check, which if not restrained would spill over into your responses. This is the key issue. I'm not sure how old you are but you seem to be in your late 20s. Not saying that's a bad thing but just an observation. Even though he is the ranking individual, it doesn't mean you can't or shouldn't discuss ideas or thoughts on how the section operates. The key with this is watching not just what you say but HOW you say it too. Tone, inflection and non-verbal cues can transmit a much deeper message than words alone. Take the time to think about what you want to say to him and respond in a manner you would expect him to do with you, even if he doesn't. As you stated above, he may not have matured as an adult just yet but that doesn't mean you respond in the same manner, if that makes sense. It may take some time and A LOT of patience on your part but he'll eventually learn by watching YOUR actions and reactions. Make sense?

Let us know how it goes.

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SSgt (Join to see), I understand why your being vague, but it does hurt giving some targeted advice. So I will try to give some good GP advice.

1. You said they are the shift supervisor, but are they your supervisor?
2. Document, document, document. Any time one of this issues come up, document it.
3. Be Joe Friday, stick to just the facts when dealing with the guy.

If you want targeted advice, hit me up on a PM here or via the GAL, I have quite a bit of experience being a junior member being assigned as a peer to folks usually superior to me by multiple grades and have done a few tours as additional duty shirt.

SSgt (Join to see)
It would really be nice to have more information to the situation. You say they haven't matured as an adult why is that. What actions or comments make you think that. Possibly maybe there are some stressful things going on with this person away from the job. As others have mentioned I would talk to them one on one as a concerned indiviual on their well being. But being the ranking person and then all of a sudden being a subordanate is something we all go through. And folks do have their ideas how things should be. But it is our job to continue the mission whether we are in charge or someone else. You maintain professionalism by being the man you are looking out for others and getting the job done. I wish you all the best and do not hesitate asking questions in this forum or by PM.
Good luck.

SrA,

The military is a structured organization. Unless it's immoral, unethical, or causing harm to oneself or to others you better execute as told. Right now, all you need to do is work hard and get promoted to SSgt and eventually hold that shift supervisor position. I was once in your shoes as a Specialist (E-4) over a decade ago.

It's likely anything you say or do back will be taken as an attack no matter how professional you are. Then the real fun begins.

It's a really tough call. You have to pick your battles. Is this one significant enough? If so, think hard if his superior will back you or him. I know, that shouldn't be an issue but if you raise one and you have no backing, it's open season.

Been in your situation more than a few times. It's a loose loose if he's that insecure with power.