How do you deal with the soldiers/NCO's who hate Officers?

I never ran into that in my career. Military SNCOs and Officers know when and how to talk out issues within the command.

One of my proudest times was a bunch of years after I retired, when I learned that a young Lieutenant that I had the privilege to mentor in his first leadership position, had been appointed to Lieutenant General in our Corps. I wrote him a letter of congratulations, with no expectation that he would remember me from so long ago. Boy, was I wrong!!! The letter I received back from him covered, in detail, the times that he felt I had shown him what a Marine SNCO should be like!!

Never came across that on Active Duty or in the National Guard.....honestly.

I believe the "hate" is more disapproval than anything else. But keep this in mind as all Soldiers know this: mission accomplishment supersedes all else. Those same troops will follow their hated officers through thick and thin and hairiest of circumstances!

If I were in your position, very carefully.

Cadet, listen to your NCO and you'll be fine. Make sure he or she has been in for awhile. That way you can receive the correct information and be successful. Ask any officer when you arrive at your unit, what did another officer teach him or her (nothing). Good luck

Sounds to me like you're already biased against them, and think you're better or something. You're not, and if I'm right and you commission with that sort of attitude, you're going to have a LOT of problems. I hope to be wrong, in this case.