Posted on Jun 7, 2021
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I'm looking down the barrel of another deployment (I'm looking forward to it). During my last IDT, the SXO approached me and asked if I was planning on staying in or leaving. I'm looking to move to Florida upon our return from this deployment and by the time we get backed I'll have 8 years in. Balancing life as an Officer in the Army (National Guard) and a Police Officer is quite the challenge. Add a family on the way and it's rather daunting. I could have promoted a couple years ago but found out that my current unit (in 2018) was possibly deploying to Afghanistan and I REALLY wanted to go as a PL (since my time as a PL was rather checkered). That mission got scrapped so I'm going where we are going now as the Troop XO. It dawned on me that a good part of me doesn't care about making Captain. My evals have always been good and I've always performed well at PT. But the way the SXO and a few other Officers talked about it made me wonder...is it considered bad if an Officer leaves the military as an O-2? I was curious what anyone here, Active, Guard, or Reserves thought.
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1SG 1st Sergeant
I have had a couple of Captains resign their commission due to home and family life. Do what is best for you.
SFC Bob Coon
As a SFC I had about 6 PL’s in my time before I retired. 2 made CPT after the PL time while serving as XO. The other 4 submitted there unqualified resignations. They wanted out they completed their time honorably! And are successful too this day. Who gives a shit if you want to get out or make it a career!
LTC Dennis Rears
Do what is best for you and your family. You served your country. I did 4 years AD and left 4 days before I would have made CPT. I made CPT and MAJ as an IMA. I than did 10 years TPU and retired as a LTC, 4 months before my COL board.
1LT Murray Robinson
I would say it happens all the time. I had a four year commitment and served from 86 to 90. They pushed out Captain to 4.5 years for my year group. I tore my ACL during a training accident and decided that graduate school and a civilian law enforcement career was for me. When I first commissioned, it was 3 years, then a little longer every year. I had a friend that only had a 3 year commitment and he was out.
GySgt William Hardy
The Guard is different from the regular Army when it comes to promotions. Your willingness to change units to fill slots has a lot to do with it. A friend of mine started out enlisted. He waited and waited and finally became an officer. He told me he didn't expect to move past Captain. Then there was a restructure in the State and there was a opening for a Major but it was about 250 miles away. For whatever reason, nobody took it. They went down their list of eligible officers and finally got to my friend. He said what the hell and accept. Since he owned his own manufacturing business, he was able to take off early on Friday to make the trip. His promotion to Major put him ahead of many formerly senior Captains. Then a few years later an opening came up closer to our town. Again, he was a junior Major, but he said he would take the slot and became a LTC. Not that long afterwards, he was approaching 60 and retired. Meanwhile, our local TV weatherman was our Protocol Officer. He was a Captain forever. He was not willing to move and just waited for local slots to open up. He got lucky and a Major's slot opened before he retired. He had already obtained permission be exempt from regular haircut regs due to his nightly appearances as our weatherman. He didn't want a different slot where he had to "conform to standards".

So Lt, that would be for you to decide what is important for you. I have had to take administrative reduction in rank several times in my career. I guess I could have retired at a much higher rank had I taken a different path, but in the end, I am happy with my choices.
SSG Eric Blue
Sir, I don't think it will be a problem. In my own experience, most of the officers I met were only in for a few years. And yes, most of them weren't concerned about making Captain. They just wanted and/or needed that deployment experience and get some dirt under their nails & in their boots. Your calling may be outside the military, but you may need that time in to bolster your resume or teach you something that you'll need down the line. Best of luck and I'm sure you'll make the right decision for your future.
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would it really matter?
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....I mean...still trying to figure that out.
I want to say no...and as this deployment goes on, it doesnt resonate with me so I guess not.
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You signed up and signed on. How you were utilized, deployment or not, is not generally something any milmem ever gets to decide. If you are doing your job now, but have serious second thoughts on continuing once your time is fulfilled, it seems to me you have already made up your mind. If the civilian world offers you more, then consider yourself lucky. Too many times, even those who do make rate/rank, regret staying in just for that climb. None of us can tell another what to do. I wish you clarity, no matter your decision. And I mean this from the bottom of my heart, "Thank you for your service" regardless of how tired that phrase has become. To me, it still resonates with grace and gratitude.
SSG Cam Prince
I like the IRR path. After I left active duty (6 year), I spent about 4 years in a couple of different state NG units. When my last unit was alerted for the Iran crisis, my wife insisted I get out at the earliest opportunity (which came up once the alert was rescinded). As they say, "happy wife, happy life." I did join the state chartered militia.
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Hows that going, SSG?
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1LT Wes M. - It was some years ago. I retired from there as an O-5. I was primarily a trainer for prior non-military joiners. For that reason, I retain my AD/NG final rank as it was more fulfilling/important to me.
PO1 Wayne Sasser
Tough call. I was E6 with good years. I had a good civilian career, enjoyed drilling, but wanted more than what the Navy could offer me. I don't regret my decision, and like many "former" military, support those who are making it a career.
MSG John Duchesneau
Audie Murphy left active duty in September 1945 as a first lieutenant. Nobody thought anything bad about him.
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In all fairness, he's also the most revered Soldier in US Army history...so..

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