Posted on May 3, 2015
How would joining the Special Forces affect my family life?
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I am currently enlisted in the Reserves. As soon as I got back from AIT I knew I wanted more from my military career. I want to become special forces. I know how the process works as far as selection is concerned but that's as far as my knowledge of it goes. I would like to know what comes next if I were to be selected. For example would I be stationed stationed somewhere, will I be able to bring my family, etc. My main concern is my daughters. I wouldn't want to advance my career at the expense of my children being without their dad. Any advice is helpful. Thanks in advance.
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Special Forces
Special Forces Qualification Course (SFQC)
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Thank you everyone for the feedback I feel a lot more comfortable in pursuing my goal now.
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MSG Dan Castaneda
I am married and have 4 young children. Two boys 13,10, and two girls 6,2. My wife and I have been married 14 years and it has been one of the best decisions I have ever made for both me and them. You have to get your significant other on board though. After that, enjoy the "better" Army life.
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Justin Michaux
I have twin girls that are 5. If this is the path that my wife and I decide how do you explain to your kids that things will be changing as far as lifestyle and time together?
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MSG Dan Castaneda
Justin Michaux - 5 is still pretty young. The older they get, the tougher it will be. Make the best of time when your together and just remind them that their dad has a very important job in helping people. While they may not necessarily understand, they will never hate you for not being there for them while you off serving your country.
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