I am coming close to my ETS and I have no idea if I want to stay in or get out. For those who have ETS'd how is it?

Hey Sarge,
I've been out for 25+ years now, and it ain't a pretty picture. How much time served do you have? If you're near or over the 10 year mark, stay for your 20 and retire. That way, you'll have a much better basis (vet benefits, medical, dental, post privileges) that most don't get right away, if at all. Think it over carefully though, especially if you have a young family. This will be a difficult choice, so do what you feel is the best for you and yours.

I'm sure it's different for everyone. I left the Air Force, spent two years out while trying to join the Army, and I hated it. I felt like I was a fish out of water and I didn't belong in that world; I didn't want to be a civilian to that extent but the Army was a long process.

Don't get me wrong, the first 6 months or so were awesome: pure freedom (which wore off quickly). After that, I felt like I had no real purpose in life. I was extremely greatful when everything worked out and I could re-enter the military.

I hear mixed responses from others who have gotten out, it really depends on what you want and what kind of person you are. A bad day in the military beat an average day as a civilian for me though.

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I am with everyone else, and have to say that if you have a solid plan then you will be fine. I would say that you need to keep your options open and not limit yourself to one area of the country or one profession. If law enforcement interests you then you need to be looking around seeing what is out there for you. I am currently about a year out from getting out after 8 years and the decision was not easy to make, but I have starting putting feelers out there and have a interview when I go home on leave here in a few weeks even though I have a year out I have friends that are helping me set things up. I have talked to friends that have gotten out recently and they have had no issues with employment and other than the usual adjustment of being a civilian again they are perfectly happy.

I was in for 6yrs, and 6mths after i got out i regreted it and have regreted it every since. stay in get your 20 at least.

They question is since you REALLY enjoy the military, have you taken advantage of the NCOES system to set yourself up for future success? If not, others are marching on and becoming more competitive, while you are stagnating? Is your family onboard with your decision-making process. If you want the best of both worlds, you CAN go into the Reserves or National Guard. You can also go into the AGR Program and that might provide more stability for the family. Civilian life (in these times) might be even more challenging than you thought. If you still have that HOOAH determination you will make it either way. Hope that this helped?

SGT Baker,
I served 21 years. I currently receive my retirement. I enjoyed being in the Military. I retired in 2008. I miss it everyday. I miss the trust, friendship and loyalty of all those that I served with. I have not found that same friendship or loyalty as a civilian. I find the civilian world a lonely place. Those that have never served do not understand your language. I would suggest staying in, time will fly by, One day you will receive a retirement check, then you can find a new career. Finding a job is not as simple as you think. Most jobs that you think you are qualified for, you are under qualified, other jobs you are overqualified. Companies do not hire you just because you are prior military. Make sure you have a Solid Plan.
Good Luck
Rhonda Boswell, CW3 Retired

I would suggest going reserves or Guard. It kind of puts you half way out, and leaves you the option of going back if you want it. It would also prevent a break in service.

It is what it is. The economy is still in limbo, if your in line for a promotion, I would say stay. When I left, I had this idea I would be working a regular 9-5, which I don't. I was able to find a great job with a large telecommunications company, but now I realize why they are so keen on hiring Vets. 6-7 days and 14 hour work days. I was making almost the same as an E-5 with BAH. But at least I know I can call in sick if need be. Pros and Cons, I guess

Having a job is a nice plan, but is it a job you love doing and see yourself doing for years. If it is not doing something you love, you will regret getting out. Have a plan and don't settle for whatever is available. I would also look into the various service organizations in your area such as VFW or American Legion. You may find that you will enjoy being around other former military and then you may not like those particular organizations in your area. Find one that you enjoy and one that does various activities in your area. Civilian life has its advantages, but so does military life. Weigh your options.