Posted on Sep 18, 2015
SPC Margaret Higgins
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SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
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SPC Margaret Higgins my Squad Leader in the early 1990s.
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SPC Margaret Higgins
SPC Margaret Higgins
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How did you react to the Squad Leader's anger Joe? I am thinking that his/her anger at you, seemed very unfair to you. I respect you greatly SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL.
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SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
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SPC Margaret Higgins I think he was trying to force me out the Army. I stayed humble and kept my mouth shout, eventually earning his respect, he was mean to me about 2 years.
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SPC Margaret Higgins
SPC Margaret Higgins
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Oh, Joe. Tears are starting to form in my eyes because of what you just said. For two Years... that is despicable and SO not okay with me.
-With My Love in Him, Margaret
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SPC Margaret Higgins
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She made me cry; and I had intrusive thoughts about her for quite awhile.
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SPC Margaret Higgins I don't want to sound mean, but your newest post states you have anger issues. Was the house cleaner justified? I know I'm particular how i fold my clothes and let an ex know I would fold my own clothes. I guess she didn't like the way I said it, but we had a good argument over it.
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SPC Margaret Higgins
SPC Margaret Higgins
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No, Cpl (Join to see). She was not justified. I am a very nice, kind, helpful to beat the band person; most of the time.
I let her go, because she was detained by the Police before she arrived at my home....for the first time. And she also snuck a free ride on a local train; before she came.
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SPC Margaret Higgins
SPC Margaret Higgins
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Thank you for voting me up; Cpl (Join to see).
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I apologize if my question is out of line, but it was ironic to see both questions together. We all respond to anger differently and although you feel it wasn't justified, maybe the house keeper felt differently.
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SPC Margaret Higgins
SPC Margaret Higgins
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She did. But I had to listen her be so mean and disrespectful for a long time. And now I am crying again.
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