Is it wrong to feel guilty during the holidays knowing our brothers & sisters are at sea, some in the fight and others fighting in hospital?

I don't feel guilty. We may be their replacement next holiday season. It is our job. However, I do remember them in my prayers and thoughts. That's what I'd expect in return when I'm in their shoes.

Been there, done that! Now it is someone else's turn!

Such is as it has always been from time eternal. As far back as the cave clans when the hunters went out those left behind didn't know when or if they would return. Some handle it well, others can't deal with it at all. My wife told me that she always knew when I was not home that I would be back. No matter the circumstances or what she heard she just knew. On the other hand my Daughter was always scared she would never see me. The point is we all cope differently, I tried not to think of it. These days now that I am older and retired, I simply pray....