Posted on Feb 8, 2014
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Why do I see more and more brand new Soldiers coming to the unit with an ungrateful attitude, talking shit to NCOs, disrespecting fellow Soldiers?  
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Just to caveat what the SSG and 1SG said, the reason is because we as NCOs allow it to happen. We as NCOs are becoming lazy. We would rather let the infraction slide than take the time out to do the counseling and present it to the Chain of Command. This needs to stop! Also, the Soldiers must understand that they are no longer "back on the block"! There is a place for the attitude these Soldiers display..it's called "the house".
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To expand on what SGT Reinecke said and being prior enlisted. The Army in general no longer values leadership. Rather, we promote managers and paper pushers. I have found that both Comissioned and Non-comissioned Officers no longer value leadership. The ones that try to mentor, or lead are all too often beaten down by their 1SG or Commanders whom all too often are more worried about their next evaluation than doing what should be done. This is reflected at nearly every level of schooling as well from WLC on the enlisted side to Advanced Officer Training on the officer side. We really need to refocus on leadership rather than management.
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To expand on what SGT Reinecke said and being prior enlisted. The Army in general no longer values leadership. Rather, we promote managers and paper pushers. I have found that both Comissioned and Non-comissioned Officers no longer value leadership. The ones that try to mentor, or lead are all too often beaten down by their 1SG or Commanders whom all too often are more worried about their next evaluation than doing what should be done. This is reflected at nearly every level of schooling as well from WLC on the enlisted side to Advanced Officer Training on the officer side. We really need to refocus on leadership rather than management.
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To expand on what SGT Reinecke said and being prior enlisted. The Army in general no longer values leadership. Rather, we promote managers and paper pushers. I have found that both Comissioned and Non-comissioned Officers no longer value leadership. The ones that try to mentor, or lead are all too often beaten down by their 1SG or Commanders whom all too often are more worried about their next evaluation than doing what should be done. This is reflected at nearly every level of schooling as well from WLC on the enlisted side to Advanced Officer Training on the officer side. We really need to refocus on leadership rather than management.
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To expand on what SGT Reinecke said and being prior enlisted. The Army in general no longer values leadership. Rather, we promote managers and paper pushers. I have found that both Comissioned and Non-comissioned Officers no longer value leadership. The ones that try to mentor, or lead are all too often beaten down by their 1SG or Commanders whom all too often are more worried about their next evaluation than doing what should be done. This is reflected at nearly every level of schooling as well from WLC on the enlisted side to Advanced Officer Training on the officer side. We really need to refocus on leadership rather than management.
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The power of the NCO and Officer is slowly being taken. Soldiers have no moral compass or pride as they have in the past. In the 1900s-1990s if a MSG yelled at you, you took it in stride and improved. 

If a MSG yells at a soldier now, the soldier just goes and files a complaint with Psych or open door policy with the CSM or worse plans retaliation. Kids(and I mean KIDS, because that's how they act dont deserve to be called soldiers) are more devious and hold a grudge instead of having pride in themselves and taking constructive criticism as a means to improve.

You think it is bad now, by the time you hit retirement age, IF we still have an Army, it will be far far worse. By then we will all probably be equals in authority, just getting paid different based on TIS rank will mean nothing but more money.
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MSgt Aircrew Controller Ii
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<p>I disagree. NCO and OFFICER powers aren't being taken away. They are giving it away by not calling BS. When confronted by MEO because an Airman complained about the way I spoke to them or treated them, I asked the simple question of "AM I in violation of the UCMJ or stepping outside my authority as a Non Commissioned Officer?"&nbsp; They would always say "No, but..." I would cut them off at the but and dismiss them from my office.&nbsp; You have to exercise your authority over your subordinates, just like your superiors must do the same with you.&nbsp; A little more 'suck it up buttercup' and stop taking things personally, because it's not personal it's professional correction and leadership!</p>
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MSgt Michael Koss, this statement says it all......"A little more 'suck it up buttercup' and stop taking things personally, because it's not personal it's professional correction and leadership!" This message needs to start in boot and continue through AIT. While we are at it, cellphones should be banned from boot camp and left in the barracks during AIT. 

It has to start in the beginning, after that it gets harder and harder to correct.
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I wholeheartedly agree with MSgt Koss here.  The NCO's power isn't being TAKEN away, it's being GIVEN away.  I see and deal with this in the AF on a daily basis.  Our E-4's aren't bridging the gap between Junior Enlisted and NCO, our E-5's aren't stepping up and taking their frontline supervisor responsibilities, our E-6's are frustrated that the E-5's and below give them no respect, and by the time it gets to my E-7 level, and I try to correct it, I get eye rolls and threats of MEO action because I'm not giving them a warm-fuzzy hugs and kisses speech.


 


Then, when you try to gather the troops for the "Come to Jesus" meeting, YOU are the one they complain about because you're the only one actually acting within his/her responsibility IAW AFI 36-2618 (Enlisted Force Structure).  This is why I keep a copy of the little brown, little blue, and now little green book in my cargo pocket.  Just for such "reminders" of how it's SUPPOSED to work.

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I see this often the simple part of allowing subordinate soldiers to just talk to you as peers, no Parade Rest or telling them to not call "at ease" when appropriate.  its the small parts that have been let to slide.
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<p>I think SGT Simpson hit the nail on the head:&nbsp; because NCOs allow it to happen.&nbsp; NCOs should hold the Soldiers accountable for their infractions instead of turning a blind eye to the problem because they want to be friends or don't want to do the paperwork.&nbsp; An NCO cannot be a hypocrite either because they lose credibility.</p><p>Example - correcting a Soldier with sunglasses on top of his head when that NCO has his sunglasses on top of his head.</p><p>Bottom line, discipline is the cornerstone to our military, and without discipline there is chaos.&nbsp; It is&nbsp;the NCO's&nbsp;responsiblity to instill that discipline in our Soldiers no matter what your MOS or duty position is.</p>
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New Soldiers and the lack of respect
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Simple no more DS in AIT. Within a few short months of Big Army pulling the Round Browns out of AIT, I saw an immediate and noticeable difference in the attitudes of new Soldiers.
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TSgt Hh 60 G Maintainer
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1SG: You are entirely right!


I was in AIT shortly before the DS were pulled out (2007).  My DS there all predicted this.


Even at the schoolhouse, when someone screwed up or was disrespectful to an instructor, the threat of calling the DS put fear into most.  When the DS was called and you saw that "Round Brown" come into the building, you knew someone was about to have a bad day.


Having gone through a recent reclass, where there were only "Platoon Sergeants." I saw the difference.  We only saw the PSG at PT in the morning and maybe in passing during the afternoon after classes or if you sought them out.


I think the Army would do well to put DS' back into AIT environments.

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CSM I do agree with what your saying about a new Soldier first NCO but, I do believe the DS at AIT played a role.  Overall though everyone wants to be cool and liked.  I have 5 brand new Soldiers here in Korea, I think this might be the worst first assignment but, none the less my Soldiers initially felt some sort of way when I got here but, I just remind them it isn't personal and I'd be damn if they go to their next unit ate up telling their next NCO " SGT Bracy was my NCO"
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I disagree with the DS being taken out of AIT, I work currently as an AIT PSG and I make sure that my Soldiers respect my rank and the rank of my peers-other NCO's, in my opinion is the NCO's that let the junior Soldiers get too friendly with them and then those same Soldiers will be the ones with the disrespecting atttitude toward others
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SFC Dominguez, I agree with you. I worked as a Reception PSG at Fort Lee for a couple years. Most of the Soldiers respected the PSGs although there were some knuckleheads. Some individuals would be counseled but most would "wake up" with a good talking to. It was very very rare to see UCMJ taken upon Soldiers in Reception.
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I think it all comes down to standards.  In many ways, standards have phased out over the past decade or so since the beginning of the GWOT.  In fact, I believe that much of this out phasing if you will, is due to policy set forth by leadership at the strategic level.  It began with lowering the bar, as has been traditional in the time of war.  Here, we let anyone in willing to serve.  Next, over the years, I've heard many leaders state that for those who are willing to serve in their country's time of need (since 9/11) a demonstrated level of respect is owed.  This ideal somehow translated into more privileges and fewer hardships during IET and in the first few years of service. 

 

Next, you have a generation that was raised where everyone get's a trophy.  My son's last place baseball team one year handed out trophies to the kids, no kidding.  It boosted their spirits, but taught them nothing about the real world. 

 

Combine these ideals and occurrences with our current media-crazed global visibility, our increased political correctness due to advancing ideals of the 'profession of arms' and the decrease in time leaders actually have to spend with subordinates due to the multitude of required 'on-line' training and 75 page counseling packets (before a single session has been conducted) and you get the new generation of entitlement and self-righteous, over-protected, and over-privileged Soldiers.  Sorry about the rant.

 

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Sir spot on!!
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Sir, thank you for your input.
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That's because NCOs are not setting the tone for them. Just ensuring that a brand new soldier stands in parade rest will let that soldier know that you are in-charge and you mean business. They still don't get it right, counsel and corrective training will be conducted.

I like to kick it old school because respect is earned so it can be given. 
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That is why NCOs need to counsel Soldiers, everything should be in B&W and corrective training should be related to the offense. If its related to the offense it's not hazing, plain and simple. Now if the unit as created that type of climate then that is a unit problem. 
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MSgt Aircrew Controller Ii
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SPC Phat.  What is the open door policy doing for them? Is the CSM coming down and telling you to stop disciplining your troops? If so the problem is at that level, not yours...
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CSM,

That is a good one take a few hours of their weekend, not bad.
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<p>CSM,</p><p><br></p><p>Finally somebody&nbsp;agree with me about the pointless corrective training that include 15-30 early show up to formation,&nbsp;also like you said I prefer&nbsp;taking their time on the weekend because that&nbsp; where it hurt the most.</p>
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if the new Soldiers went from Basic to AIT and were already accustomed to getting dropped or smoked then they would have no idea what to consider hazing... if they had to work hard in AIT to stand out to the DS (who only sees a bunch of privates, all equal, no one different or special) then they would come to the units more prepared to work hard to stand out...

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if the NCO would lock the Soldiers up and identify clear lines, then the Soldiers wouldn't push the limits. If you play around with your Soldiers- don't get upset when they start crossing lines with you... your bad.

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if the Leadership would stop pushing this "family" work environment and enforce a business mentality then maybe the junior leaders won't have such an issue of telling their little "brothers" to do stuff.... which means the junior leaders need to make clear lines for the Soldiers which the Soldiers are used to because thats how they were brought up by the DSs.

 

make sense?

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SSG Cannon Crew Member
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you are now my new favorite SGT (P) SGT Kolagbodi... great answer.
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I agree to an extent. The reality is there is a clear line already distinguished between leaders and subordinates,its called your rank. Soldiers know what and who they can get over on. I believe that leaders can have a work environment that makes Soldiers feel like they are part of a tight family. I don't know how long you have been in but when I first came in the Army the Soldiers that stood to my left and right were my brothers. We treated each other like family and our Sgt's were our big brothers who were proficient at their jobs and dedicated to leading. 

What makes me disagree with you a little is the simple fact that NCO's shouldn't have to lock up their Soldiers, they should know to do it anyways. The reason I know they know it and have been taught it for example; let a CSM or 1SG walk in and start talking to Soldiers. They will all stand up and go to parade rest. This means they have been taught what right looks like. Leaders have to be engaged at all levels and hold Soldiers to the standard. 

I believe that leaders have to truly know and understand what makes their soldiers tick. Which means they have to do more than just set the example. They have to research, teach coach, and mentor subordinates and take an active role in their lives not as a baby sitter but of a caring leader who wants their subordinates to excel. 
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Chief, I agree to an extent as well. I have only been around eight years and I agree- the issue does lie within the leaders at ALL levels, but I think this is kind of a long the lines of

 "i got spanked as a child and turned out just fine" 

 

This is a business. We have morals, values, ethics and foster specific work enviornments. This is not the time for "today it's my eye, now my arm, now my back, oh and my ankle... oh your treating me unfairly. you hazed me when I had to do push ups for being late. You gave me a counseling for being late three times but I'm telling that you picking on me..." THIS is what I listen to day in and day out. Its all about the emotions and feelings and treating Soldiers like.... children. The little I have grown in the ranks (from fuzzy to staff) I had to grow thick skin. I got scuffed up; I did the training, got back up and kept moving- making a mental note not to make the same mistake. You can't just tell a Soldier to have thick skin. Most dont even know what that means...

 

I want all my Soldiers and NCOs to excel, but I dig in their behinds when they are wrong.... the same way I learned and that is because I care.

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SPC Nguyen,

 

I think that there has been a culture change in the military. I will only speak on the Army since it is the only branch of service in which I have expanded knowledge. Not only has there been a change in the Armed services culture but there has been a change in the culture of the country as a whole. Because of this culture shift we are seeing Soldiers entering the military feeling as though they are owed something. The values that were instilled in the generations before are not the same as the values instilled in today's generation. I've been in the Army for some time now and there have always been people who should have never joined the military. The difference between now and then were the leaders and their ability to motivate, teach coach and mentor younger Soldiers to change their attitudes and be better Soldiers. 

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SPC Christopher Smith
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I couldn't agree more, we are lacking in mentoring, and coaching our juniors. We have replaced much of this with counseling, and "self structured development". I understand this is partly to help track self motivated individuals, but it has commonly become the tool of are you getting by without getting in trouble.
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Roger that Chief, I'm always said not all Soldiers are bad they just need to have the right person to coach and mentor them through hardship.
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I feel the main problem is that Soldiers have been able to manipulate resources such as IG, SHARP, and EO the way they see fit. Once upon a time you had to talk with your chain of command before using those resources but now PVT Snuffy can do it on his own. If you look into FM 6-21, you will see that any punishment has to fit the crime committed. How do you motivate a Soldier that isn't motivated or even cognizant of his own surroundings? Take them out back and do react to contact drills until they can't move. Its training and repetitions are no longer a concern.
     There are several issues with Joes these days and much of them stem from the fact that they take no personal responsibility for anything. Its always somebody else's fault. Make them be accountable, make them be responsible, make them understand the consequences of their actions. A good Leader can do these things and should. It takes time but the Unit and Army shall reap the rewards if all is done correctly.
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Right on SGT. I'm with you 100%. I was just told the other day by a LTC, as he was clearing the MP station, that he's glad he's getting out of the Army. He's finding it difficult to be around soldiers who, instead of knowing the Soldier's Creed or General Orders, know exactly how to get to IG or SHARP to manipulate those sources, as you said. 

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Basic training has been watered down. I break my neck to fix these kids into Soldiers, however my hands are tied. Personally, I believe in Schofields definition of discipline, where you do not have to be a ruthless disciplinarian. Instead give new Soldiers an example of what they should become. After exhausting every resource to rehabilitate a Soldier, begin separation. Additionally, when the Privates report to their first unit some folks DO NOT enforce any sort of discipline. That's going to change when I return to FORSCOM and get a platoon. 
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