Posted on Aug 24, 2015
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I've been contemplating whether I want to reenlist or get out. Obviously I very much would enjoy getting out due to being treated like an adult and having simple liberties again. Yet, I'm terrified of getting out because I don't know what I would do. I refuse to settle for some "pass the time" job like McD or something. I don't have a college degree and while I know what I want to do it requires a college degree. So I'm not sure really what to do. Has anybody else come across this issue as well? Im sure many of y'all have at many times contemplated getting out. What was your thought process and what did you consider? If I were to stay in then I would definitely be trying to go officer in either the Navy or Air Force but idk how well things go with the enlisted to officer programs. Any thoughts and advice on that matter? Please any advice would be helpful and very welcome.
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Stay in. Where else can you do 20 years ND not worry about your paycheck? And get a pension?
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Nowhere except the other branches. That's what I'm looking to do. Move to another branch after my contract is up. Go to either the Air Force or Navy and go from enlisted to officer. I just don't know where to go to get info for that and what other steps I need to take along the way. Obviously to be an officer I need a degree and they have these programs to go from enlisted to officer and you stay on active duty but get your degree with your GI bill and the military's help. While I'm going to school I want to be sure I can support myself
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Lt Col Richard Colarco
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" I don't have a college degree and while I know what I want to do it requires a college degree."

Hmmmm. Then go out and get the degree. There are lots of programs available, including on-line. It's hard, but lots of people have done it.
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Well it's exactly that simple. I have to be able to support myself while I getting degree. Sure the military will pay for my schooling with the GI bill but I still need to have a job that will pay the bills. I don't care if it's paycheck to paycheck penny pinching type of job. I've been there and I'm not afraid to go back and struggle for a bit while I improve my chances for a better career and life. See my predicament? I want to go officer with an enlisted to officer program so I'll be active duty while I'm at school, can afford to support myself and when I get my degree come back as an officer and finish out my years. While the freedoms of getting out and being a civilian increase, the securities decrease. I'll take security in light of the fact that someday I'd like to have a family and I don't what them to suffer just because I wanted my freedoms more than security for them. School isn't hard for me really. It's just time consuming and as I'm sure you're aware, time is what's not readily available in the military. It's not my time, it's the Marine Corps time.
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Talk to officers who have gone this route. They will tell you of the tribulations involved. They will also tell you it was worth it.

You have had to do a lot of hard things to become a Corporal in the Corps. This is just the next hard thing. It's also hard to leave your comfort zone. You are probably very good at what you do. You are a Marine. You can do this.
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PO1 James McCollum
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CPL, from your post can I make an assumption that you are not married and do not have any children. It sounds like you are finishing your first enlistment and you do not say what your specialty is in the Corps. All that being said, if you do not have a job that is marketable in the civilian world I would suggest staying in and going to college to make yourself more marketable. When I enlisted I made sure that I had a job that if I decided to get out I could find a good job. I was an Advanced Radiologic Technologist in the Navy. Let me suggest do some research. Talk with Human Resources people and talk with the VA about job training opportunities before you get out. Best Wishes as you go forward. I stayed twenty and never regret a moment. I would do it all over again.
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TSgt Ryan Lee
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There has been many people in your shoes. The questions you need to ask yourself, is this going to be a career for you if you re-enlist? Your first duty station and being young in the ranks is always frustrating. When you become an NCO, I saw things get a lot better as far as treatments. If you do not know what you want to do if you get out, stay in, it is a guaranteed paycheck as long as you do your best. Go to school while tuition is paid for. If you separate, you have your GI Bill that will pay you to go to school but it isn't much money. But you better have a plan or you will not make it. Your healthcare will be really high, hundreds of dollars per month compared to TRICARE. If you do not have any money saved and are going to separate, that can spell disaster quickly. The best thing to do is to speak to a career consultant and weigh your options. The best thing I always told my troops, embrace the suck for awhile, it is all worth it in the end.
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A1C William Puckett
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if you reenlist it's a sure thing paycheck. Honestly gone are the days of veterans preference. Nobody cares. This is a travesty honestly. you can go to school online and get your degree. the military will pay for 75% of your tuition.
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SSgt Liam Babington
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Stay in...or at least stay reserves/national guard
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SFC Mahlon Paul Manson
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Cpl, Try the trades, usually at the first of the year they except apprentices and being a vet counts
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SSgt Steven Denison
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Weigh you options carefully. First think about what skills you have learned in the military and take them with you. Take advantage of the free training that you received while in the military. I was a Personnel Specialist while active duty and I learned computer skills, administrative skills and how to conduct training. I got out of the military and have been able to take what I learned into a career. I have been training computer software for several years now and I have been able to climb the ladder of success. I recently was laid off for the first time in my career and within 39 days I was back to work at a different company. I have been able to gain employment with a HIGH 5 figure salary with great medical, dental benefits, bonuses, vacation time and of course a 401K option as well. I say go for it and do not sell yourself short. You probably have many skills that will take you into the civilian sector with relative ease. You have a whole world waiting on you.
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Sgt Tom Vaughn
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That's a tuff one , my son and his 3 closest friends are all lifers. , my son gets. Out with 20 years a Marine in 1 1/2 years
He's fed up with the changes he has seen ,
One is stationed in Okie , he just teen listed again , I'm thinking for a higher rank at retirement
If you leave then decide to go back , you can , but more then likely drop 1 or 2 grades
Not a lot of good paying jobs outside , unless you have a 4tear degree or maybe willing to work 50 to 60 hours driving truck for s Union freight company , but there are expenses for that job, like getting a CDL , medical certification , TSA background checks
It's a tough decision for sure .
And add to that who knows if the military pension will even be funded by the time you leave service
I sometimes think I would like to be in my 20's again ! Then I step back and say
" oh hell no". Not with the complete lack of faith in the country's leaders and the current changes in this world .
I feel for all the young people who never got to know or learn about this country not have the knowledge of the past generations and the understanding as to what this country was in 1940's throughly the 1980's.
Good luck son,
I pray all will work out for the best
There are a bunch of good women and men on this site who can help , maybe even help with a job
Try looking into my former employer
ABF freight lines , they try to train and employ veterans as much as they can
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Sgt (Join to see) Everything is about preparation and what is best for you as an individual, assuming you don't have a family. If you are comfortable with getting out and knowing where you want to go, you will get there with the right preparation. I don't know how much longer you have to decide but if you are separating, start preparing as early as possible.

I just separated from AD due to HYT and with only four months notice, it was a more difficult transition in finding a job. Even if it is just a pass the time job while you are in college, you would likely need one just to have the little bit of extra cash.

Also, take advantage of your benefits. The money you can receive, the medical, the general help is all afforded to you and it would behoove you to receive as much as you can to get the new chapter in your life started. I wish you the best of luck on whatever you decide.
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