I had a fellow NCO and good friend of mine, who I have known for several years, come to me and sincerly ask me if he should try to get promoted or if he should ride it out at his current rank of SGT for a while. I was perplexed by the question for a minute or two and gave him the most honest answer I could. Which is, I cant tell you. You know if you are ready for the next level and if you are performing at that level already. You shouldnt have to ask if you are ready to get promoted to the next level. The only thing you should need to get organized is your paperwork for promotion. I believe that he is a good NCO just to clarify and is ready for the next level. I just wanted to know what everyones take on this was.
To clarify further, he was asking if he should bide his time as a SGT an dget more experience under his belt or take a promotion to SSG and try to get the experience while at that level. I feel that he is being more honest with himself than most by just asking the question and not just doing it for the money/power.
SSG Wise, my question is, did he say should I ride it out as a SGT for a while?
That to me sounds like should I ride it out until ETS or I should ride it out doing nothing.
If the question actually was should I try to learn more in my current rank before I get promoted if he doesn't feel like he is ready, then I give him kudos for being honest about himself, not everyone is ready for increased responsibilities, all we want (and in this I include myself) is the increased pay and coolnes factor of the next rank
SFC, but what if the NCO does have the desire to better themself and its not out of lack of motivation or the wrong motivation he is asking. What if he saw the effects of those who were promoted too quickly due to their completion of a degree or a really good PT score, not that those accomplishments are to be looked down on, but that Soldier got promoted due to those accomplishements and had no leadership experience or abilties and that ended up hurting his Soldiers and the unit. While perhaps if that Soldier had done a self evaluation and relized that they had not grasped the pupose and spirit of being a SGT they may have stopped themselves for a spell and worked on getting that experience so they could perform at the maximum or at least the appropriate level.
I admit it is mostly the other way around, but as an NCO I will not categorize every Soldier I have based on the surface of a choice they have made. I would have to understand the motivation behind that choice.

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