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Join us live on May 20th at 2PM ET for a Q&A session in support of Memorial Day for Survivors and Caregivers and Mental Health Awareness.

You can ask questions to the following people:
» RDML Ann Duff - Director of the Office of Survivors Assistance, VA
» Delaney Heffner - Supervisor, VHA CHAMPVA
» SMSgt Thomas Paulus - Program Management Officer, VHA CHAMPVA
» Shauntye Alexander - Deputy Director, Office of Community Care
» Coleton Whitaker - Director of Programs, Elizabeth Dole Foundation
» Maj Bonnie Carroll - President & Founder, Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors
» Nancy Menagh - President, Gold Star Wives of America
» LTC Jon Drake - VP Operations, Children of Fallen Patriots Foundation
» Kylie Willis - Enrollment Coordinator, Children of Fallen Patriots Foundation
» LTC Hugo Lentze - Chief Strategic Partnerships Officer, Travis Manion Foundation
» Melissa Comeau - Director, American Red Cross Military Veteran Caregiver Network
» Pete Jeffries - National Engagements Director, AARP
» Leah Christensen - Clinical Program Coordinator, VA Caregiver Support Program
» Maj Lillie Mells - Program Coordinator, VHA Office of Mental Health and Suicide Prevention
» Detra Giles - Assistant Director, Outreach, Office of Transition and Economic Development
» Pamela Avey Stemple - National Service Officer, American Gold Star Mothers
» Joe Duran - Director Policy and Planning, VA
» Kristie Thibodeau - Outreach Specialist, CaringBridge
» Angell Bolden-Green - Chief, Outreach, Office of Transition and Economic Development
» 2LT (Join to see) - Engagement and Memorial Innovations, National Cemetery Administration

VA Office of Survivor Assistance:
The Office of Survivors Assistance serves as an expert resource regarding all benefits and services furnished by the VA to Survivors and Dependents of deceased Veterans and members of the Armed Forces. We can help you navigate the myriad of benefits and services available, and direct you to your best options. Additionally, we work closely with veteran service organizations, other departments, state and local veteran groups and community leaders to educate everyone about available services and benefits.

TAPS:
The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) provides compassionate care and survivor support services for the families of America’s fallen military heroes. Since 1994, TAPS has offered support to more than 95,000 survivors of fallen military in the form of peer-based emotional support, grief and trauma resources, grief seminars and retreats for adults, Good Grief Camps for children, casework assistance, connections to community-based care, online and in-person support groups and a 24/7 resource and information helpline for all who have been profoundly affected by a death of a military loved one. For more information go to taps.org or call the TAPS National Military Survivor Helpline at 800.959.TAPS (8277).

VA Caregiver Support Program (CSP):
The Caregiver Support Program promotes the health and well-being of family caregivers who care for our nation’s Veterans, through education, resources, support, and services. CSP is comprised of two programs, the Program of General Caregiver Support Services and the Program of Comprehensive Assistance for Family Caregivers. For more information, please visit: https://www.caregiver.va.gov/

American Gold Star Mothers:
American Gold Star Mothers, Inc was founded and incorporated in Washington, D.C. 92 years ago. We are a nonprofit membership organization of mothers whose children died while on active duty, died as a result of their service, or are missing in action. We have members in chapters around the country who keep alive the memory of their sons and daughters by helping veterans, active-duty military, and their families. As a service organization, we continue the service of our sons and daughters, who would have been veterans, by volunteering at VA Medical Centers in our local communities.

Children of Fallen Patriots Foundation:
Our mission is to provide college scholarships and educational counseling to military children who have lost a parent in the line of duty. The vision of Children of Fallen Patriots Foundation is to ensure that every child of a fallen patriot receives all necessary college funding. http://rly.pt/FallenPatriots

AARP:
AARP brings together free resources, timely programs, and important information to help Veterans & Military Families navigate their options on caregiving, fighting fraud, finding employment, and connecting with their earned service benefits at AARP.org/Veterans. With over 5 million AARP members nationwide who have served or are currently serving in America’s armed forces, AARP is on a mission to support Veterans and Military Families. Check our FREE resources, programs & timely information at: http://www.AARP.org/Veterans #AARPsalutesVets

Gold Star Wives of America:
Gold Star Wives of America, Inc. is a Congressional Charter Organization of surviving spouses (male and female) of those who have died as a result of active duty or service connected causes. We provide (non monetary) assistance and support to survivors. Our members honor our spouses through our voluntary service to Active Duty, Veterans and Surviving Family members.

Travis Manion Foundation:
Travis Manion Foundation strives to unite and strengthen communities by training, developing, and highlighting the role models that lead them. We develop programs, training opportunities, and events designed to empower veterans and families of the fallen, and then inspire them to pass on their values to the next generation and the community at large.

American Red Cross Military and Veteran Caregiver Network:
The Military and Veteran Caregiver Network (MVCN) offers peer-based support and services to connect those providing care to service members and veterans living with wounds, illnesses, injuries and/or aging. The mission of the MVCN is to provide our nation’s military and veteran caregivers of all eras with peer support to reduce isolation and increase connection, engagement, knowledge, skills and hope.

The MVCN helps caregivers of all eras and at all stages of caregiving by providing access to three peer support programs:
· Online Peer Support Community
· Peer Mentor Support Program
· Peer Support Groups (Online & Community-Based)
New Integrated Condolence Care Program - https://www.redcross.org/about-us/news-and-events/press-release/2020/red-cross-offers-virtual-care-for-families-who-have-lost-loved-o.html

CaringBridge:
CaringBridge provides a free, easy to use website to help Veterans & Military families communicate and coordinate support during a health event. Confronting an illness, injury or death is one of the most demanding, isolating things you can do. Family and friends are an amazing source of support, but constantly sharing updates with each and every one of them is difficult. CaringBridge replaces countless texts, phone calls and emails with a free, easy-to-use communications platform including:
· Journal to Share Updates and Receive Messages
· Easy-to-use Planner
· Ad-Free, Secure and Safe Platform
Learn more at CaringBridge.org/military
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Responses: 35
Andi Martinez
What is one great resource that caregivers and survivors must know about?
Kylie Willis
Kylie Willis
3 y
Children of Fallen Patriots Foundation is proud to partner with and refer students and families out to other organizations that may provide assistance additional to or different from what Fallen Patriots is able to provide. Please check out our Scholar Resource page for additional family and educational resources for the families and children of our fallen heroes!

https://www.fallenpatriots.org/scholar-resources
Delaney Heffner
Delaney Heffner
3 y
Andi - I would also suggest checking out this website for dependents eligible for CHAMPVA. You'll find information for Caregivers and when they may be eligible for CHAMPVA. https://www.va.gov/COMMUNITYCARE/programs/dependents/index.asp
LTC Hugo Lentze
LTC Hugo Lentze
3 y
Great question Andi, Expeditions with Travis Manion Foundation are a great opportunity for survivors to connect with other survivors, and honor their fallen hero through a service project in the local community that we travel to. Check here for a list of upcoming TMF expeditions for Teens and Adult survivors.
CSM Alfie (Lourdes) Alvarado Ramos
CSM Alfie (Lourdes) Alvarado Ramos
3 y
Their State Department of Veterans Affairs is a great resource to apply for benefits, get connected to local benefits and also to the community. Each state has one, some are large, others limited, but all will do a warm handoff when they are unable to serve the surviving family member.
Sharri Boyett
Glad to see support for the spouses included. 23 years ago there were no networks after my disabled veteran "passed away." So many times, I was given misinformation or declined benefits, all while grieving with a young baby to raise alone. Finally. Good work.
RDML Ann Duff
RDML Ann Duff
3 y
Sharri -- Please accept our condolences on your loss. We sincerely hope you found the help you needed, however if in the future you have survivor related needs, please do not hesitate to reach out to us at [login to see]
Kylie Willis
Kylie Willis
3 y
Sharri Boyett We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one, please know that we honor their service and sacrifice to our great nation.

I encourage you to enroll with Children of Fallen Patriots to see if there is any assistance that we may be able to offer your child for their undergraduate degree! Our enrollment form can be found here: http://www.fallenpatriots.org/enroll-a-studnet

Please reach out to me at [login to see] if you have any questions.
LTC Hugo Lentze
LTC Hugo Lentze
3 y
Sharri, we are so sorry for the loss of your husband and cannot imagine the difficulties of navigating the benefits and raising a baby all alone. If you would like to join the mission with Travis Manion Foundation alongside other families of the fallen, veterans and inspired civilians, we would be honored to have you as part of the TMF family. http://www.travismanion.org
2LT Chaplain Candidate
In the coming days please check out the Veterans Legacy Memorial (VLM) l https://www.vlm.cem.va.gov/ The site is currently being updated to integrate some new features but these will be ready next week. VLM is the official online tribute site of the U.S. Government where loved ones may leave tributes to Veterans in perpetuity.
CSM Alfie (Lourdes) Alvarado Ramos
Edited 3 y ago
Really looking forward to what is going to be an amazing session. Thank you Rally Point for hosting.
Kylie Willis
Kylie Willis
3 y
Good afternoon CSM Alfie (Lourdes) Alvarado Ramos! Thank you for joining the event.
Maj Bonnie Carroll
Maj Bonnie Carroll
3 y
CSM Alfie (Lourdes) Alvarado Ramos, thank you so much for your service to our country. We are honored to be a part of the initiatives for military survivors with RallyPoint.
LTC Hugo Lentze
LTC Hugo Lentze
3 y
Thank you for your service CSM Alfie (Lourdes) Alvarado Ramos and for joining us today.
Melissa Comeau
Melissa Comeau
3 y
So great to "see" you on here CSM Alfie (Lourdes) Alvarado Ramos
Cheryl Schneider
Edited 3 y ago
How can I get all issues of compensation settled, the Judge ordered back on July 10,2017? My hero died back in 2011 but these issues have been going on since 2006.
Maj Bonnie Carroll
Maj Bonnie Carroll
3 y
Cheryl, please accept my heartfelt condolences for the loss of your loved one. You loved one proudly served our country and TAPS would be honored to have the opportunity to now serve you and your family. TAPS does have a Casework team that may be able to provide assistance in the matter. Please connect with TAPS Casework to discuss your specific situation in more detail by calling 800.959.TAPS (8277) or emailing [login to see] . Thank you.
Cheryl Schneider
Cheryl Schneider
3 y
Thank you, it helps just having someone to listen.
RDML Ann Duff
RDML Ann Duff
3 y
Cheryl Schneidere -- please reach out to us at [login to see] and we will do our best to get your situation resolved.
Melissa Comeau
Melissa Comeau
3 y
Cheryl Schneider I am so sorry for the challenges you are facing after the death of your hero. TAPS is wonderful and I know they will be a soft landing place for you and you can find others you can share with. It does help when people listen.
PVT Chase Carroll
I don't entirely know if I can count as part of the big green family as I was medically discharged from BCT, but a buddy of mine didn't make it back and he was the one who inspired me to enlist. Its amazing to see resources like this being promoted to those who need it.
Maj Bonnie Carroll
Maj Bonnie Carroll
3 y
PVT Carroll, thank you for your service to our great nation. I am deeply sadden to hear of the loss of your battle buddy. You both proudly served our country and TAPS would be honored to have the opportunity to now serve you. At TAPS, we provide comfort, care, and resources to all those grieving the death of a military loved one. Since 1994, TAPS has provided comfort and hope 24/7 through a national peer support network and connection to grief resources, all at no cost to surviving families and loved ones. We provide a variety of programs to survivors nation and worldwide, including our National Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp in Washington, D.C. over Memorial Day weekend. TAPS also conducts regional survivor seminars for adults and youth programs at locations across the country, as well as retreats and expeditions around the world. Staff can get you connected to counseling in your community and help navigate benefits and resources. Please connect with TAPS any time at 800.959.TAPS (8277) or visit: https://www.taps.org/. Thank you for joining us on RallyPoint, we look forward to answering any questions you may have.
RDML Ann Duff
RDML Ann Duff
3 y
Always a pleasure!
LTC Hugo Lentze
LTC Hugo Lentze
3 y
PVT Carroll, I am sorry for your loss, but it's awesome that his passing inspired you to serve. Thank you!
Melissa Comeau
Melissa Comeau
3 y
You count. Thank you for sharing your inspiration for service. I will be holding all those we lost in my heart as Memorial Day approaches. The VA and resources shared today hopefully can make a difference. Please take good care.
Andi Martinez
What is the Veterans Legacy Memorial?
Maj Bonnie Carroll
Maj Bonnie Carroll
3 y
Great question, Andi. The Veterans Legacy Memorial (VLM) is an online memorial space managed by the National Cemetery Administration (NCA). NCA manages more than 150 national cemeteries as shrine spaces to honor our Nation's Veterans, and extends memorialization of the 3.7 million Veterans interred in those cemeteries to this digital memorial space by providing a VLM profile page for each Veteran. For more information, please visit: https://www.vlm.cem.va.gov/.
Melissa Comeau
Melissa Comeau
3 y
Another helpful resource for veterans and their families/caregivers can be the Planning Your Legacy https://www.cem.va.gov/cem/docs/factsheets/Planning_Legacy_Booklet.pdf
Sue Mckay
As a survivor I am having a hard time moving on. My husband died from complications of ptsd and it was a horror show. i cannot get things out of my mind.
Sue Mckay
Sue Mckay
3 y
Delaney Heffner - thanks for the info i do have champva
Sue Mckay
Sue Mckay
3 y
LTC Hugo Lentze - thanks for caring
Sue Mckay
Sue Mckay
3 y
Maj Bonnie Carroll - thank you i think i will try it thanks for caring
Sue Mckay
Sue Mckay
3 y
CPT David Gowel - thank you for the info and caring
Cpl Jennifer Hart
Happy to be apart of this discussion
RDML Ann Duff
RDML Ann Duff
3 y
Jennifer -- thanks for your service. Always a pleasure to help others!
Pete Jeffries
Pete Jeffries
3 y
Thank you for joining today. At AARP, we salute your service and sacrifice!
LTC Hugo Lentze
LTC Hugo Lentze
3 y
Thank you for joining us today and especially for your service, Cpl Hart!
Melissa Comeau
Melissa Comeau
3 y
We are so grateful you have joined us Cpl Jennifer Hart
Andi Martinez
Maj Bonnie Carroll
Maj Bonnie Carroll
3 y
Thank you for the valuable information, Andi.
Kylie Willis
Kylie Willis
3 y
Great article, lots of good information!
Coleton Whitaker
Coleton Whitaker
3 y
Thank you, Andi! Great information that I will share with our Hidden Heroes Community.
Melissa Comeau
Melissa Comeau
3 y
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