What are some tips on how to do my absolute all in my career field while maintaining a new marriage?

For a bit of background, my husband and I have been together almost 7 years now. I want to strive to do all that I can such as volunteering for any and every opportunity that comes my way to make BTZ and pursue mortuary affairs or search and recovery. My problem with this is that my husband is not doing well with the separation that's happening at the moment. Two months of basic training and almost two months of technical school have left him feeling very isolated and overwhelmed, and I hate to see him like this but I cannot do much from where I am. I don't want to sacrifice my career or my relationship, so are there any programs for active duty spouses that could help him with this rough transition into the military? He's a very shy and introverted person, but even a once a week get together with similar people would at least get him out of the house and out of his head.