Posted on Jun 14, 2019
What are some ways I can improve my command presence?
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I am leaving for advanced camp in a couple weeks and to be prepared, this is one of my weaker areas I would like to develop. My reserved quiet nature works against me. However, I believe I can still work to my strengths by using the principle of "be brief, be bold, be brilliant, and be gone" in my interactions. I want to become an inspirational leader, but I don't want to come across fake by trying to be someone I am not. That being said, I am willing to change.
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Many good leaders, even great leaders are reserved. Just as you are planning, find a given situation where you have that aha moment knowing you can help guide the group and simply speak out professionally and controlled providing your input. They follow it and you are right-winner, hey follow it and you are wrong-it happens. The point is to always choose your words wisely, try not to get exited (outwardly) and be humble with the result. Of course what you do need to do is find your Hoooah, when you and your Team overcome obstacles, either mental or physical. Thank you for your future service.
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1LT (Join to see)
Roger CSM Darieus Z. Thank you for you advice. This puts into perspective what I need to work on.
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LTC Jason Mackay
1LT (Join to see) the advantage of not saying a lot is people listen when you do speak.
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Some of the best commanders I ever had were “Quiet Professionals”. In fact. A study held at Fort Leavenworth back on the 80’s labeled most successful leaders as introverts. It’s not that they were holding back but rather they were deep thinkers that weighed their decisions before stepping forward. Knee jerk command action is often poorly thought out. Be yourself. Your opportunity will come. Trying to force a “Command Presence” is only seen as arrogant. Special operations do not call themselves the quiet professionals lightly. They mean it. Think, analyze, study, then “Act” with solid performance.
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1LT William Clardy
Accept that you will never be fully prepared, 1LT (Join to see). When putting out an OPORD, make sure your subordinates understand what the goal of the mission is, and their part in accomplishing that. That way, whenever unexpected contingencies arise, they can react independently in ways that continue to support the mission. And don't forget that communications is a two-way street: many times a subordinate's question can highlight a critical vulnerability - or opportunity.
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Sgt Tee Organ
Sometimes knee jerk responses are warranted, like under fire or when there are sudden changes to a plan, but you will have plenty of leaders under you already on this, just make sure they are where they need to be and that they don't create problems by the unknown factors of their direction. You'll find if you sit back, you have a pretty good set of enlisted folks running things, especially when things get hairy, they respond better than you will expect, but then again, they have a TON more experience than you. They make you look good, you follow through for them and do the same too. The more you learn in this way, the better you'll be in the long run.
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You're a cadet, you have no command, just a bunch of other cadets just like you (some looking to get ahead of you). Just listen, learn and never put yourself ahead of your soldiers. The rest will come, don't try to be someone you're not, the troops will spot it in a second.
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Roger sir. That makes sense. At the cadet level, it is easy to step on other people's toes. I think, like you said, the rest will come with time and experience in a leadership position. Competence and experience will lead to confidence and command presence.
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SSgt Rachel Shelley (Cook)
Excellent advice. 100% true. Your troops will sniff you out if you fake it. And it's totally ok to fly under the radar, especially as a cadet.
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Most cadets and young officers face the same question you are facing. The best advice I can give you is: BE YOURSELF. Your troops will see through any charade you put on. Who you are got you into school, and got you through the program. Your troops won't care if you are a quiet guy or the 2nd coming of Patton, they care that you explain the mission to them, make sure they have the tools to get the mission done, and are consistent in your attitude and leadership. Best of luck, it is one of the greatest rides you will ever take. Enjoy it for all it is worth because, in all honesty, there are a lot of us here that would love to take that journey again!
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1LT William Clardy
Yup, LT Brad McInnis, there are darned few jobs as satisfying as those days spent leading small units.
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Openly show support to your NCO's. Don't be afraid to stand up for those you command. Remember,, you can't please everyone and respect is earned. Do right by your people, keep them safe and they will follow you anywhere. I Respect the fact thet you asked the question.
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Roger SFC Davila. I hear the "respect is earned" phrase a lot, and you are the first person I have heard to actually explain how in a meaningful way. Thank you.
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At Advanced Camp and really all the time keep your plans simple and if your platoon is like mine was you will likely have some experienced former enlisted soldiers In my case we had a Ranger E 5 and in my company we had an SF E6 as well as several former infantrymen. I watched them like a hawk especially during their briefings since they had done it for real. When you take over your first platoon get to know your soldiers and take care of and fight for them. Watch and read Band of Brothers and look at how Maj Winters led E Company as opposed to Cot Sobel If you read the book all the men say Winters was harder on them than Sobel but he was hard to make sure the came out alive and accomplished the mission. He also trained right alongside them and led by example. He also was quite and a thinker and because he didn’t drink some weren’t sure about him till Normandy and they found out that his plans worked. Learn your job and your knowledge and experience will translate into authority and command presence
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Thank you for that excellent concrete example of a good quiet leader sir. I will take a closer look at what actions made Major Winters successful as a leader and try to incorporate them. I will make sure pay close attention to prior service cadets as you recommend.
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Sgt Tee Organ
If I remember correctly, Maj Winters took command by attrition, he didn't like being there but he did his job and always remembered where it started. Such is the way of experience, by the time her got to staff, he had honed his leadership style considerably by baptism of fire. The greatest way to understand the material is to be born out of it and he was. Cpt Sobel was a great garrison leader but beyond that he sucked. In such cases, it's best to take the good from each experience and balance it out.
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1LT William Clardy
It's worth remembering that Dick Winters later credited Captain Sobel's high standards and expectations for setting the stage for Easy Company's combat success, and wanted no part of the resentment building between Sobel and the enlisted men of Easy. Sobel was removed in a lose-lose situation that arose from several company NCO's delivering an ultimatum to the 506th's regimental commander (effectively, an enlisted mutiny for which several were demoted).
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So the Command Presence is something that is taught to Drills at DSS that are in the same boat as you. I have never had the problem with this but I have encountered others. Work on pushing through your diaphragm and be confident on what you are saying those are the 2 biggest things. In front of formations is usually when you see junior leaders get nervous and speak soft, but remember that person in the back wont hear your directions if you are leading a platoon or greater.
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Roger SSG(P) (I can't see your Rallypoint name, otherwise I would properly address you). Thank you. This is definitely something I need to work on. I am going to record myself to figure out if I am projecting my voice correctly.
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1LT William Clardy
SFC(P) (Join to see), you are confusing "command voice" with "command presence".
1LT (Join to see), the 2 key things in projecting your voice are (1) learning to forcefully exhale using your diaphragm and (2) do not contort your mouth and throat as if you are yelling. Well, have a large lung capacity helps, too, but a good command voice is calm, confident tone of voice with the volume set to LOUD AND UNIGNORABLE.
1LT (Join to see), the 2 key things in projecting your voice are (1) learning to forcefully exhale using your diaphragm and (2) do not contort your mouth and throat as if you are yelling. Well, have a large lung capacity helps, too, but a good command voice is calm, confident tone of voice with the volume set to LOUD AND UNIGNORABLE.
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1LT William Clardy - Lol you are right I totally read his first sentence wrong. But hey another pointer for him anyways because at ROTC they will be holding formations a lot I went through 2 summer cycles with them at Lewis and Knox working at a brigade for ROTC. So just an added tip for him.
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Robert-Most of the "inspirational" leaders I've experienced were made so more by circumstances than any intentional effort on their part. God willing, you'll serve out your future career having no more harrowing challenges than retention, logistics, and politics. However, if, as for so many, your skills are tested in more applicable circumstances...always remember that what your Soldiers are looking for is cohesion between your decisions, and the NCOs leadership. If you're the "Quiet Man", but they see that things get done, get done well, and with as little SNAFU as possible... the presumption is that all is as it should be. I used to meet with my Chief as soon as he and I had both left our perspective morning briefings. I'd lay out what the CO wanted, and he'd let me know what was needed to make it happen. We'd agree on a course of action... and that was what we passed down to the guys. Big speeches and bravado don't accomplish anything but putting the focus on yourself...and that's not where you want to be.
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James Mattis espoused the value of reading everything you can get your hands on. Look to the ones you want to mold yourself after and read everything you can about them.
You will be in charge by the authority of your commission. Don't tell your men who you are, show them. Be humble but firm. Be patient while demanding results. Uphold the standards.
You have 2 ears and 1 mouth. Listen twice as much as speaking.
The fact that you are willing to admit your areas needing improvement is impressive. You seem like you are going to be okay.
Good luck.
You will be in charge by the authority of your commission. Don't tell your men who you are, show them. Be humble but firm. Be patient while demanding results. Uphold the standards.
You have 2 ears and 1 mouth. Listen twice as much as speaking.
The fact that you are willing to admit your areas needing improvement is impressive. You seem like you are going to be okay.
Good luck.
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1LT (Join to see)
Thank you GySgt Pepper. I aspire to be a firm but fair leader as you described. If others underestimate me, it is because I haven't truly shown them who I am. Personally, I am frustrated when people don't listen to me when I have valuable information. Not listening and utilizing other people's experience shows you don't care and they will be reluctant to buy in.
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SFC Michael D.
1LT (Join to see) - I had a Commander who told me once. "Don't go into a new unit and start changing things, sit back observe, listen, then put out your policy letters." I've carried that with me even into my civilian career. It has served me well. If it aint broke, don't fix it, if it needs tweeking, tweek it. If it's a cluster then Fix it from the top down.
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GySgt Kenneth Pepper
1LT (Join to see) - Understood. I echo SFC Davila's point "watch & observe"...only make or suggest changes that are of an immediate need, not your own personal preferences. The SOP/policies in any given area have been shaped by years of experience. Your new command element may not be eager to have someone come in and poke holes.
I'm sure your input is valuable, but your first command will not know that until you prove it. Wait for a really good opportunity and suggest a better strategy/method/mousetrap to accomplish the goal.
Frustration can be a good internal motivator, but be careful how you express it to others. And be sure to remember all this 3-4 years from now when you are mentoring a brand new 2Lt.
I'm sure your input is valuable, but your first command will not know that until you prove it. Wait for a really good opportunity and suggest a better strategy/method/mousetrap to accomplish the goal.
Frustration can be a good internal motivator, but be careful how you express it to others. And be sure to remember all this 3-4 years from now when you are mentoring a brand new 2Lt.
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Oh, and the fact that you are asking this question is indeed a commanding presence! Blessings in all your future endeavors, Fine Sir
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