What does a successful transition out of the military look like?

This is a GREAT question, and will likely result in many different answers, as success is defined by the transitioning SM. To some, it may be clearing CIF without owing any money, and going back home to "figure it out". To others, it may be having a job waiting for them on the outside.

For me, a successful transition will be providing for my family without losing the social-economic stage we have become accustom to. I want to work in the business operations side of baseball, but if I don't walk into a job in that sector, it doesn't mean my transition is not successful. I may need to go into an MBA program, or gain relevant industry experience. If I don't end up being able to work in that industry I won't consider my transition a failure. As an analogy, in my career I've had one opportunity to go to Ranger school, but left prior to earning my tab. It is something I wish I didn't leave incomplete, but it doesn't mean I have not had a successful career.

Not having to rely on unemployment or other assistance to survive.

A successful transition is, first and foremost, one that provides a sense of purposes and validation. For many of us wounded in combat (physically or psychologically), the challenge is embracing our 'new normal' and knowing that the challenge could be a daily one. Being able to talk about demons, with trusted/safe people, is a huge step in the right direction. Regardless if you were fortunate enough to land a great job with great pay and growth opportunities, our demons will always surface. Be sure to practice gut checks and buddy checks for those of us who continue to struggle. Lastly, for me personally, a part of my successful transition is not forgetting those who fought beside us and/or follow behind us. Even though we no longer wear the uniform, we still have a responsibility to help and advocate for our fellow veterans.