Posted on Mar 11, 2016
COL Mikel J. Burroughs
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RP Members, Connections, and Friends here is one of those questions that are still prevalent today that got lost in the black hole here on RallyPoint. I revived it for more RP Members to comment on.

Based on your Service Branch and your experience in the military what are some of the things you wished people understood about you as a person and what you experienced while being in the military?

Mine would be the Camaraderie you build as a Team or individually with those you have served with! Also, those you've lost along the path once traveled!

Don't Hold Back-Tell your Story RP Nation!
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CPL James S.
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The first thing I wish they would understand is: Not all military members are in combat positions! Too often I see civilians assuming that because they wore the uniform they're killers or combat operators.

Then I would like them to understand that there are jobs in the military that require special training and circumstances giving you experience that far exceeds civilian training.

I would also like people to know that some of us join the military for reasons that can't be easily explained - how do you tell a random stranger that you joined because you experienced terrorism regularly and know what it's like to not have the rights they take for granted? They don't understand that living overseas means living by host nation laws, not US laws.

Lastly, I would like them to understand that just because you're an NCO or enlisted doesn't mean you're uneducated - some of us hold multiple degrees and chose the position or job they had because of a desire to be or do something that can't be done as an officer. For example, There are no military officers in the Fire Department.
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MSgt Student
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That it is something everyone should experience. A side from serving your country, you come out with training, a brotherhood, organization, life and leadership skills. You are educated and have the opportunities to further educate. Striving for excellence and to be the best becomes your standard.
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COL Mikel J. Burroughs
COL Mikel J. Burroughs
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MSgt (Join to see) I totally agree. The parts of the world that other don't get to see as well. I have much deeper respect for other countries and what they've gone through in their history and they their people have survived from the Middle East, to Europe, and throughout South America. Many of our brothers and sisters have experience much more. I believe if they understood all those experiences and other cultures we have been around they would have a different perspective on their own backyard or community - jsut a thought! Thanks for your response!
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MSgt Student
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Absolutley! We take alot of it here in this country for granted. It definitley makes you more appreciative of what you have.
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PO2 Construction Electrician
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To Millenials who think serving is all about Killing. Nothing could be farther from the truth. It's about being part of something bigger than yourself. It's about serving something bigger than yourself. It's about protecting those, who cannot protect themselves.
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LTC Paul Labrador
LTC Paul Labrador
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Soldiers (and that is soldier in the generic term) fight not for the hate of the person in front of them, but for the love of those behind them.
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SPC Victoria Coe
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I will say that the sentiment of killing is not just a millenial thing...it spans various generations. Secondly, after over 2 years in Iraq, I can safely say we did not help those people, truly. I had far too many interpreters and LNs who told me just that, not in an hateful way either. Just my experience.
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SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth
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That we a tight knit bunch that looks out for each other.
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COL Mikel J. Burroughs
COL Mikel J. Burroughs
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SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth It is continues well after we have left the service - amazing!
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Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
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That we have Social Security and Medicare deducted from our pay!
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SPC Gary Welch
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That we do this to serve our country I gladly gave up alot for 19 yrs to defend my country. Even though I left the service with bad knees,ptsd,trouble sleeping , depression and some other stuff if I had to do it again I wouldn't hesitate for one second.
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SGT Combat Engineer
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It doesn't matter so much now in my life, but when I first got out, I wish the civilian world had understood the responsibility and the difficulty of the associated tasks that I had handled during some of my time in the Army, even as a lowly E-5. I honestly felt like I was being talked-down to by people who had no clue.

At this stage, I'm not currently looking to do management, (I like being an "individual contributor"), but when I first got out, I could have performed management and leadership much better than twits that were appointed over me by corporate nincompoops. The business world puts way, way too much faith in college degrees. I most fully realized this after finally getting a degree. What I learned in college is a joke in comparison to what I learned in the Army.
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SFC Craig Dalen
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I would want everyone to truly understand what emotions we get going on deployment and how some changes are inevitable. Also the brotherhood that is formed with a bunch of people from all walks of life.
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COL Mikel J. Burroughs
COL Mikel J. Burroughs
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@SFC Craig Dalen - well said! Thanks
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CPO Andy Carrillo, MS
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The pain of being deployed and leaving one's loved ones behind, not knowing if you will return home above ambient temperature, and the joy of a reunion. As they often say in Hawaii: 'eh, no can!'
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SFC J Fullerton
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That military leadership experience IS a transferable skill to supervisory and management positions in civilian occupations.
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Ryan Voegele
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I'd love to have any given one of the military servicemen I've known as my superior in any working position. A job with them in charge would run so much better. Not to mention that from all I've seen, though the individual isn't always aware of it, military service makes you a better, smarter, more tactful and more compassionate human being. It would be more honoring to work for someone worth admiring, and service has constantly made the people I've known more admirable.
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SFC J Fullerton
SFC J Fullerton
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When you are in charge of 18-25 year olds from all walks of life, you develop "people skills" pretty darn fast, or you fail.
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