What is your advice for Females joining the ranks of the combat jobs in the Military?

Females joining combat arms need to understand the social impact to themselves when they do this. I have jumped out of airplanes for years where there are few females and equally as long been a male nurse which is rare. I have enjoyed being a male nurse and never minded being the only male at times, other times it can be lonely. If I want to take the discussion to sports or cars, usually only the tomboy girls can keep up. We have done well blending all walks of life into our military however sometimes you just want to talk about dresses, make-up, newest hair style, and being bald, I suck at the hair conversations... I am sure these females will strive to shoot, communicate, and move out well, learn their weapons and how to kill but when it comes time for the Holiday Ball, which mascara would go best with her dress is not advice she will get that day at the range. I am a better husband having worked with mostly women but sometimes who Bella is dating in Twilight is just not a conversation I always want to discuss. No I am not going to see Magic Mike with the girls and these females will experience some of this loneliness. It will not be purposeful or based on whether folks believe you belong there but a fact of life of being one girl amongst 200 men.

During my some two years combat experience in Vietnam I fought against females from time to time. I found that they made great fanatics (they would sooner die for their cause than men would) but poor warriors (your job as a a warrior is to make the other sob dies for his cause, not you die for yours.) Every test run on this suject done on the military shows that women are just not capable so they will hinder the performance of that unit thus getting many unnecessarily hurt or killed. My advice - whether or not you like it - is tell them to join a noncombat branch.

Don't make anyone else carry your weight...

I Retired in 2015. I joined as a Heavy Construction Equipment Operator back in 1994. Throughout the majority my career, I was, in most cases, the only female. Women just did not last long and still to this day not many Women make it to the rank of Sergeant as an Engineer. Along the way, I was a Recruiter, earning the Morell Medallion and a Senior Drill Sergeant. I was a Platoon Sergeant, who led 32 Males and 3 Females ( 1 Sergeant E5) and ( 2 Privates First Class) down range, and carried out numerous Missions that a Female wasn't suppose to be doing, but guess what buttercup.... NCO's, lead from the front, so the majority of my platoon's missions was away from a COP/FOB....sometimes months at a time, So my role as a Platoon Sergeant included everything from securing ourselves/equipment in place , sleep cycle, work schedule, etc. To have made it that far is a testament to the Leaders in my EARLY CAREER. My leaders were the last of the Vietnam Leaders, Quarterly, you were tactically tested on your equipment. Those Men ensured that I knew my JOB. By leading from the front,.i.e. Counseling my Squad Leaders on how to Counsel and following up, P.T, Weapons, I was never questioned.

Do what you have trained to do.do it well and come home safe.lead by example. Dont expect to be treated any different. Its a difficult job ,you've proven yourself as a soldier .never surrender and never leave a fellow soldier behind. Serve Honorably. I support you& thank you for your service. ARMY STRONG!

If your a WM, female soldier, sailor or airman, just do your best. Learn all you can from anyone willing to give you correct information and training. Physical fitness and knowing your job to the detail are the most important issues to your job. Making good working relationships is 2nd to making the 2 most important work for you. Don't misunderstand this , but, I do not believe women should see combat ( its just the way I have been raised and the way I feel about the protection of women period). That being said, if you as a female can complete any and all training, just like that which is required for any males, can understand the consequences of what being a POW for a female will more than likely mean, then I say give it all you got. Just be sure not to leave anything on the field and give it your best 100% of the time. If for some reason you still don't make the cut, move on to a different path. You may get another chance in the future for another occupational change. And, don't forget to have fun every now and then!!

Pull your own weight and the rest of the women to do the same. I say this because a long time ago the first female soldiers caused all the male solders to pull more duty. If that happens again, the experiment will be over in a few years.

I would say: Don't play the game. Have a purpose and think very critically about every action you take. Unfortunately, the truth is there are a lot of NCO's that shouldn't be wearing stripes. Don't let them trick into thinking that's what the service is about. Jump out of Planes, Repel from Helicopters, put the hat on, and do your thing-- you're the best part of the Army!

I believe the best advice to give to ANYONE joining the Armed Forces is that lives may well depend upon how they perform what ever duty may be assigned to them and to always put duty before need/want. When you are part of an elite, highly trained team, your performance can mean success or failure. On active duty that could also mean life or death! Thanks, in advance, for serving!

Respectfully,

Steven F. Kuhn MM1(SW) (Ret.)

Forgot an article to verify my claim...http://usdefensewatch.com/2016/04/army-continues-to-stall-congressman-on-release-of-records-for-female-ranger-school-grads/