Posted on Apr 22, 2016
SSG Bethany Viglietta
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I am an Army Recruiter and it would be great to share.

As we gear up to ship out some of our first female Future Soldiers in combat jobs, I ask of the members of RP, what is your advice for these young soldiers?

Please keep it constructive and nothing along the lines of they shouldn't be able to serve in these positions because that ship has sailed and opinions about how they should not serve in these positions are not going to change anything.

Edit: The conversation among RP members about mentoring these service members is amazing. Honestly, I did not know what to expect when I started the thread, because this is a subject many feel strong about. Thank you so much for all of your advice thus far, I cannot wait to share it with our female and male recruits and hope you share it in your ranks/communities as well. Together we are molding the future of the military.
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SGT Steven Gnagi
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The same thing I would tell any soldier; Get the most out of your training, stay out of trouble, obey orders. After all, they are soldiers.
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SSG Connie Wilson
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Find a good nco or officer depending on your rank to be your mentor that is more old school and learn from them. Push yourself to learn everything you can about your job and be the best you can. Learn everything about your rank and the one above yours as well because that is what you are stiving for. Never play where you work meaning dont sleep with your buddies but always learn and follow the seven army values. Thoses buddies you may need to have your back one day and they may need you. Always do your best
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Cpl Stanley Richards
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It is CRAZY, women do NOT have the stamina or Strength of a man. In combat they cannot fireman's carry a man to safety. Women captured will be raped and tortured worse than men. Also young soldiers and Marines will fall in love on the front lines, and if he or she cheats on the front lines where grenades and live rounds are always on hand, there will be deaths over lovers, furthermore pregnancy will allow women to immediately go to the rear with gear. So what does that do to unit readiness??? This idea is thought up to ruin the military by think tanks that work for the elite. This is NOT just some crazy idea, this is planned!
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CW3 Tommy Daniel
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Do not change the training program because of physical abilities. Combat is combat and if a female can pass the training, both physical and mental, she will do great in combat. We may look different on the outside but we all bleed red.
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PFC Assistant Gunner
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Ssg I may only have been in a hot minute but my advice from my limited experience is this.....tell them that they can't act like they are entitled to anything extra and to expect to be on the receiving end of some disdain. Tell them to pt on their own using the male standard and to constantly strive to be better then all their male counterparts
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SN William Besold
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Only i can say girls do you job and watch your back and make your ship mates proud
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CPT Erik Eriksen
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I come from a time that having women in combat units was unthinkable. However, even then, there were only two thoughts on my mind: "Mission first and men (people) always." Having said that, I think that there are three points that I would like to make.
1. You have to train and be prepared to complete the mission at all times. You will not be treated equally...you are a minority. You will have to work harder and smarter to be considered an equal. It may not be fair, but it is a function of being a minority. This will change, over time, but slowly. If you have questions about this comment, ask a black or Hispanic soldier (depending on the demographics of your unit) how they feel.
2. Regardless of how the last ten or twenty years has brought this male/female equality to the point we are at now, there are hundreds (or thousands) of years of culture we are trying to over turn. Do not expect it all to happen at once. I am not only talking about sexual attitudes, but philosophical and social attitudes and manners as well. For example, if I, as a Captain, held the door for a female of lower rank, that may be good manners, but it may also seem condescending. The same for doing physical tasks. My advice is to take all of these things into consideration, take them in stride, and be professional. This may be difficult for everyone in some ways.
3. There are different attitudes based on age. Young men and women today may be able to work together very well. Your higher ranking men and women may not find this quite so easy. So be cognizant of the fact that the senior ranking people (senior NCOs and officers) may find this more of a struggle and act accordingly. These are, most likely, the people that will act the most negatively if you pull the "female" card.
In the end, remember that the mission comes first and your fellow soldiers come always. Be all you can be!
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COL Ed Mullin
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The key is upper body strength. Most women lack the upper body strength required for close combat fighting. Many young men also lack the fighting skills that were learned through experience in previous generations. Soldiers need the strength and ability to put a bayonet through the enemy's spleen even when exhausted, scared and hungry. If you have the desire and ability you will be successful.
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Cpl Stanley Richards
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you are skippy right old salt
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SFC Thomas Holcomb
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It is a very tough life. The first 20 plus years I was a Field Artillery Man, 13B, D,F, E, somewhere i fit in becoming a Pathfinder, 27M, along with being Airborne, it's lonely hard stress full then after 30 i was hurt and medical Retired if anyone's ready to live in some the most ungodly places on earth then go for it and as a 92y40 in a artillery battalion hq is no cake walk
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CPL Glynnda White
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Excellent edit....all I suggest is females be treated exactly the same as men in the specialized units of the military-if they cannot pass under the given standards they should not be given the position. They should also be warned (which is fair) that if they go into combat and are captured they will very likely be subjected to rape and likely many times over. Please be reminded everyone that the US is one of a handful of nations on earth that actually practices Geneva Convention standards when it comes to prisoners. I am a first degree black belt in Tae Kwon Do, not much I know, but I trained with males, all of whom were bigger than me, and I kicked their tails just fine, my best running time was 6 min 30 sec mile, I know this is better than a good percentage of males.....I'm just sayin' women can do it if they want it, without the special treatment.....They don't need any favors from politically and/or horny males or power hungry females who need a female victim to hold on to their power. In basic I witnessed a number of females gaining "special" favors from male drills and I saw those otherwise good NCO's lose their rank. I don't like females who play this game, they are a serious insult to the women who do it the right way. I have no respect for them and I have a serious problem with women and men mixing due to experiencing this problem throughout my military career. Yes I blame the males however it was females seeking favor who instigated.....disgusting and should have been treated as sexual harassment and the "Ladies" involved given the boot out of the military. Did these females just have something to prove or did they really want to be Rangers, or was it just to further their military careers...I'm hoping it was door number two and if so that they will be frank and honest about their training without congressional inquiry...
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SFC Jim Ruether
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Hi CPL White,
Another great response. If you can do the job then go ahead and do it. I would however be worried about a female getting grabbed in a firefight and know that she will be tortured and raped like you have stated. I took Karate and had my hat handed to me several times by female sparring partners so you are preaching to the choir about getting an #$% kicking from a female. ha ha
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