Posted on Nov 8, 2013
MG Peter Bosse
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The best advice I ever received was to "take a knee". I had just been through a divorce, was struggling through CGSC, couldn't get enough shared custody time with my kids, was overwhelmed at work and was trying to find time for my monthly drill (BA). The guy I worked for, a LTC at the time and I was a Major, suggested that I RST and work on my CGSC instead of attending drill for the next three months. I was blown away by his compassion and caring during a time when I was juggling way too many balls in the air. This breathing room, as a result of taking a knee, allowed me to complete CGSC, get my life back on track and demonstrate resilience through taking positive actions. I owe that LTC big time for some of the best advice I've ever received!
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SFC Small Group Leader
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If you are injured then get yourself fixed. Once you get fixed. Stay at a slow pace till your body or mind is ready to rock and roll again. You may be a tuff son of a B. What good are you when the crap hits the fan and you are not 100% because you had too much pride.
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SFC Company First Sergeant
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Everyday you should learn something new that will help you kill bad guys.
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In order to take care of yourself, you must take care of your Soldiers. If they are squared away and trained properly, then you will be able to maximize your time to take care of yourself. Be proactive and not reactive. The last sentence is a quote we use all the time in MRT.
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MAJ Health Services Systems Management
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Dummy cords, if used correctly, will dummy-proof you.
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SSG Cryptologic Linguist
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"don't do anything that is going to embarrass you, your family, or the Army. If you have to say hey watch this, you probably shouldn't do it."-this was the only thing that my 1SG would say at safety briefs. As long as you follow those two sentences you should never find yourself in a situation that you shouldn't be able to handle.
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PO2 Command Career Counselor
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Don't let anyone tell you what you can't achieve. Unless they want to be proven wrong...
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SPC Robert Patrick
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Be sure to go to school and use Tuition assisstance

 

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SSgt Forensic Meteorological Consultant
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Something strang'e happened the other day as I was looking at Air Force Weather Service history.   A friend of mine a then SSgt Halbeisen actually helped write that history and I had always wondered if I would find out where he left to from Germany.


He used to show me medals and other items from WWII and was already quite a historian.


So it is no coincidence that he would give me advice that would benefit my career.   He simply stated that never let a pilot talk you out of what's right.   And I never did and on a few occasions managed to irritate planners.   One Colonel said I was 'inflexible' and I said with all due respect that is not something I get paid for.   Stating we forecast potential.    I got the last laugh,  my wind forecast was 35-49kts.  About midnight,  when we hit 88Kts.   A microburst from a Thunderstorm plus a strong pressure gradient and resulting high winds were the basis.


So that advice saved me and Nick told me,  never give in because the Investigators would hound me.    My unit Commander Major Faas was happy the next day,  saying I was the only one that figured it out.


It is funny how good advice if heeded,  can save lives.  All Around.

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SPC Christopher Smith
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1) Cover your own ass

2) Don't make this a career, this is not the organization for YOU!

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We had a young NCO back from Vietnam and he was very jaded and he had what he called the 'Maggot Dance'.  He was referring to military leaders and alluded to them as lifers and being ate up among other things.   His dad was an Air Force Major.  This was at the Parachute Shop.


And the CYA deal that was preached by a few and especially in the weather field and because it can get dicey when things go really bad.   Like the nuke that exploded at Van Buren County, Arkansas.  My cousin was nearly killed there.   Msgt Mike Hanson.  He was the maintenance man there...

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SPC Brendan Kearns
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if you got screwed over, at least be happy that the people after you wont be
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