Why is it easier to make on the spot corrections with NCO's than Offiers/Warrant Officers?
Very true. At a certain age or level of maturity/experience, you understand how to make people aware of things without calling them out for all to see/hear.
I have made senior NCOs and Officers aware of minor uniform stuff by simply catching their attention and discreetly pointing to the area that needs correcting on my own uniform. In almost every case, the message is received and understood. Most of the time I get a "thank you." Sometimes it's just a nod of the head. Either way, the respect between both is recognized.
You don't have to embarrass people in order to help them out.
While talking to the SPC, he said 'Specialist, your trouser leg is unbloused' in a normal tone of voice. Â The SPC stopped, looked, said 'Oh, thanks SGM! Â I didn't even see it', and fixed it.
When he encountered the CW3 a couple of days later, he said 'What's the matter with you Mr. X? Â You think you're better than us now that you've crossed over, you can walk around with your trouser leg unbloused? Â Fix your jacked up shit.'
That CW3 said nothing, fixed his trouser leg, and walked away from the SGM. Â The SGM hollered after him 'You're welcome, you rude individual...you could respond after all'.
Yeah...looked to me like that CW3 practiced restraint. Â I want to be him when I grow up.
I'm just in awe and admiration of the restraint shown by that CW3..... Â that's something to emulate.
You stated, "He is only doing because at the end of the day if he goes and gets the LTC, the LTC is going to stick by his side."
I have to respectfully disagree with the above statement. If the SGM goes to the LTC AFTER being disrespectful, then he loses ground almost immediately. He will have to explain why he articulated such behavior as pointed out by CW2 Walker:
'What's the matter with you Mr. X? You think you're better than us now
that you've crossed over, you can walk around with your trouser leg
unbloused? Fix your jacked up shit.' The SGM hollered after him 'You're welcome, you rude individual...you could respond after all'.
Who will want to stick by anyone's side with that type of behavior? I believe the only time a SGM has the LTC's ear when dealing with Officers is when he or she remains professional at all times. Professionalism holds more rank, than the "rank" itself, in my humble opinion that is.
Your comment was spot on SGM when you stated, "I personally never try to put my Commander in that position unless it is
an Officer blatantly violating the standards, and then not correcting
the problem when I approach them professionally."
V/r
CW3 Jones
Another thing, is do not major on the minors, if you do, YOU will get a reputation as the one with a problem. Â Think about other things as well, could this person be going through personal issues at home? Â Perhaps his mother or father are ill, and a name and branch tape is the least of his worries at the time. Â Sometimes our compassion can carry much more weight than our bark. Â
This is just my opinion, I hope it helps.
If you are respectful, you will be respected.
What I recently learned, from Rallypoint, no less...is that people seem to think that when there is an opportunity of a spot correction, it's a justifiable opportunity to be a disrespectful to a higher ranking individual.
An officer can overllok a uniform issue just like anyone else, and I would imagine that 9 times out of 10, you can politely point it out and not have a problem. And, occasionally, you will get THAT guy...
Anyone can come talk to me, about pretty much anything...but if you are going to be a jackas about it (because 660-1is on your side), then, good Sir, you may go screw yourself!!!!
Rank is just that. Beneath it is still a human being. Learn how to properly and respectfully interact with anyone, and rank will not matter.
Remember, as professionals, we must carry ourselves with situational awareness and address those around us with the proper due respect. A lot of care and a little bit of tact is all that is needed when helping an officer. So by all means, no matter your rank you should not shy away from talking to an officer and letting them know something that ultimately is for their own benefit.
AFter I was promoted to CPL... and my PSG dug in my 4th POC about the need for "Tact"... that became the manner of address and engagement practice. I believe I can safely say that I don't know any soldier "O/W/E" that doesn't appreciate another soldier squaring them away where they aren't walking around... let us say... "chewed up".
Those that do take offense that outrank you... salute or whatever and walk away. They have a larger challenges and aren't worth you effort... as Karma is payback.
my 2 cents
As for the WO... I'll give you a trick that worked for me. Call them Mister/Miss. They all want to be called Chief... but Chief is a title that is earned IMO... kind of like TOP.... when thay ask you... and they will... why. Just look them in the eye and say, "AR 600-20 provides that I address you a Mr or Ms. They'll follow that up with, "I'd prefer...." ... the you acknowledge that thet would prefer Chief... but that with you.... you must earn that from me.
I did that to a maint tech WO when i was in the 426TH FSB SPO... he was... lets us say... difficult. I did this to him, and the officers in the section caught on and started also.... the expected verbal exchange occured and I told him my position... in about a month he started changing.
Now sure it would work in a AVN unit... but hell... its worth a shot. Then you can say, "well... i tried"... my son... in the CAB at Riley used it and he said it worked with a few.
Good luck

Regulation
