Posted on Nov 10, 2014
Would you drop hints for an award recommendation if nobody has done it?
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I have been doing military funeral honors since 2012. I have completed 250 funerals as of today and volunteered 1000 hours of my time. I have been asked by 5 different NCOs and Officers if anybody has recommended me for an award for doing all the military funerals I have done. However, the only thing I was ever given was a battalion challenge coin, nobody has recommended me for an award of any kind. Do you think I should drop hints about it or just let it go? I'm just curious because I told the 5 people who asked me if I was recommended for an award "no I haven't" and no one has recommended me still. I just don't understand why they would ask that question, I tell them no, and they still don't do it. What would you do?
Edited 10 y ago
Posted 10 y ago
Responses: 7
Lesson in military life - you make your own career. I've actually written several awards for myself and sent them to my commander for approval. All 3 I've written have been approved. You have to be proactive in your career. If you can't write them, find somebody to do it for you. It's a sad but true reality - squeaky wheels... if you don't squeak, others will get the grease.
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MSG Kent Holmes if you want my weight as a BC I'm happy to assist. I wrote an MSM for an unnamed CW3 a few months back for work he did on a website that helps us all and sent it straight to his CG and copied his CoC and they approved it last month.
As a young PFC in the NG over 20 ys ago I did 50 funerals myself back when they were unpaid and always wondered why it didn't warrant something. In fact I never got my first AAM until I was an E6 DS.
Having said all of this, clearly we don't do it for the awards but certainly can understand the frustrations of a young Soldier who has gone WAY above and beyond. ARCOM for sure on this one. I'm happy to help and get the attention of his Bde Cdr and MACOM Cdr. They need (and want) to know about these things.
Final point on awards is this - to me, awards say far more about the leadership within the units a Soldier serves than even the individual Soldier. It takes nothing but time to write an award (and perseverance to ensure it actually gets awarded). ANY Soldier of any rank can submit one. Pay it forward... ;)
As a young PFC in the NG over 20 ys ago I did 50 funerals myself back when they were unpaid and always wondered why it didn't warrant something. In fact I never got my first AAM until I was an E6 DS.
Having said all of this, clearly we don't do it for the awards but certainly can understand the frustrations of a young Soldier who has gone WAY above and beyond. ARCOM for sure on this one. I'm happy to help and get the attention of his Bde Cdr and MACOM Cdr. They need (and want) to know about these things.
Final point on awards is this - to me, awards say far more about the leadership within the units a Soldier serves than even the individual Soldier. It takes nothing but time to write an award (and perseverance to ensure it actually gets awarded). ANY Soldier of any rank can submit one. Pay it forward... ;)
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I have drafted suggested write-ups for my bosses before. I leave the rest up to them.
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