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Posted on Jul 14, 2020
U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs
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SPC Brandon Vondera
Where is the best place to find a mentor or one, that will walk the path with you? Struggling to see results in appeal attempts, and attempt to find great family counseling. Doing the work. Attitude of gratitude leading the way. Any bit helps. Thank you.
-Warrior in San Antonio, TX
SPC Brandon Vondera
SPC Brandon Vondera
>1 y
Thank you. Caitlin Thompson thank you kindly.
Jessica Schiefer
Jessica Schiefer
>1 y
SPC Brandon Vondera Good afternoon. Thank you for your question. VA's Vet Centers offer individual, group, marriage and family counseling to eligible Veterans, service members and their families. We have 300 Vet Centers across the country and would love the opportunity to connect you to your nearest one. While we primarily see those who served in an area of hostility, saw first hand the tragedies of war, experienced sexual trauma while in the military, or are the family member of someone who died while serving on active duty, we will do our best to connect anyone who reaches out to available resources. If you are interested in learning more, or would like me to connect you to your nearest Vet Center, please feel free to send along your zip code and telephone number in a private message and we will have someone reach out as soon as possible. Thank you for your time!
Lisa Pape
Lisa Pape
>1 y
The VA Caregiver Support Program's Peer Support Mentoring Program is a support program where caregiver Mentors are matched with caregivers who are interested in talking with a more experienced caregiver. Caregiver Mentors will have access to training, on-going support and consultation with the National Peer Mentoring Support Program Manager. Contact your Local Caregiver Support Program Team for a referral. Visit https://www.caregiver.va.gov/support/New_CSC_Page.asp to find your local team.
PO3 Deidre Blascyk
PO3 Deidre Blascyk
>1 y
Operation Family Caregiver offers free caregiver coaching. In 8 sessions we will come up with a custom plan based on the caregiver's needs focusing on problem solving, self-care, and stress management. For more information or to sign up please visit us at http://operationfamilycaregiver.org/
MSG Loren Tomblin
I put in to add my wife to my claim. We were married Dec 7, 2020. The VA said a certificate of marriage was not proof of marriage. I got the proof squared away. After a few years they approved but chose an arbitrary date of 2013 as the actual date. I sent in an appeal five years ago and the VA has not even acknowledged receipt of it. What's up with that?
AN David O'Gwin
Good morning i have a question about my VA benefits?
SGT Jordan Ketner
SGT Jordan Ketner
>1 y
Good afternoon AN David O'Gwin please add a comment here with your question and we will try to get you the most accurate information as possible
MAJ Eva Weatherley
MAJ Eva Weatherley
>1 y
Go ahead and post your question here. Thanks!
PO3 Peterhorses41 Biegler
Was suppose to have a checkup March of 2020. they canceled because of the virus!! It was 1 yr since my last Checkup!! so when can i have my next on?? Not to loose my status!!!!
Maj Bonnie Carroll
Maj Bonnie Carroll
>1 y
Dear PO3 Biegler, thank you for your service. For questions about how COVID-19 may be affecting your health appointments, benefits, and services TAPS recommends connecting with your local VA Vet Center. With gratitude, Bonnie Carroll
TSgt James Sutton
I have been retired from the AirForce for 10 years now. My wife and autistic daughter were in Greece last July and my wife got sick and hasn't been able to return to the U.S. Both my wife and daughter have immune system disease, doctors feel that is what the problem is now with her lungs shutting down (not COVID related) she is currently at 25% lung capacity, her left lung will not inflate it is blocked with so much mucus and inflamed tissue. When not on oxygen her O2 drops into the low 80s and high 70s if she exerts herself, her resting O2 is high 80s, hovers around 90. The doctors have said it wasn't safe for her to travel by airplane so Greek Immigration gave her and our daughter a 1-year residence permit in January 2020. I however was denied, no explanation given and was told I had to leave or would be deported in February.

We rented a house an hour west of Athens and my wife has had 3 hospital visits of greater than 3 weeks for biopsies, lung capacity testing, and surgery to attempt to clear material from her lungs. The U.S. embassy in Athens says they cannot do anything and referred me to Greek Immigration, Greek Immigration refuses to answer emails or phone calls. I contacted the Greek Presidency who referred me to Greek Foreign Affairs who stated they needed a formal request from the U.S. State Department before they will consider allowing me to return to care for my wife and daughter. The hotline for the State Department has been zero help, they referred me to an emergency number but that number only helps with U.S.citizens trying to return to the U.S. not citizens trapped in another country too sick to leave. They then referred me to U.S. Customs and Border Patrol who were dumbfounded as to why since they only deal with immigration issues of persons coming into the U.S. not citizens trapped in another country.

I have reached out to my old commanders who are still serving and have been referred to make congressional inquiries which I did 2 weeks ago. Senator Dick Durbin's office has not replied to my request, Senator Tammy Duckworth has replied but I have not heard back in a week and a half. Congressman Kinzingers office has been more communicative but still no answers on what can be done. I have been referred to contact other Congressmen such as Senator Tom Cotton and Don Bacon as I heard they are more military-friendly, even if I am not from their districts/states.

My wife is alone in the hospital after her 3rd surgery this month and is very scared and alone. I finally attempted to call the White House phone number and again nothing, was actually told they didn't believe me, and something was wrong with my story as if someone would lie about something like this. I offered to send the White House all of her medical documentation and pictures and videos from our Facebook Messenger chat sessions....can't offer any facts more indicative of the problem than that but they didn't care to see them...really perturbed at the White House supervisor insinuating I was lying.

I thought the President said he was looking for ways to reduce veteran suicides....he can start with his staff and cabinet members and how they treat honorably retired combat veterans who call asking for assistance and direction in a humanitarian/hardship situation. Where do I go from here? Some have suggested contacting the press in both the U.S. and E.U. and create a stink, but that is something my wife doesn't want, she is afraid Greek authorities who have threatened her in the past will force her to get on a plane even though she is too weak to walk without assistance.

But I'm tired of getting the runaround from every single bureaucrat, calling me a liar, I'm on a rollercoaster of emotions ranging from severe depression and hopelessness to extreme anger that the 20 years I spent on active duty serving my country is met with such disdain as I can't get a simple letter or phone call making a request for me to be by my wife's side while she is suffering!! She is a military dependent and apparently that doesn't matter to our government because they are doing nothing. My 24-year-old daughter who is a higher functioning autistic is alone in the house, we have neighbors who look in on her but she is still alone most of the day.

Looking for answers to prevent this tragedy in the making.
SPC Tesha Gaither
SPC Tesha Gaither
>1 y
Call the White House number again. Different people have experienced this before. Keep calling until you get someone who listens. Reach out to the closest Military base to your wife, see what they know. Some local agencies like American Legion or Veterans of Foreign Wars may be able to help.
Unfortunately, they is all I can think of. I just couldn't leave you with out something. Keep fighting, your family needs you.
CW4 Robert Croy
I am 70% service connected and have Medicare and Tricare for life . Will VA pay my Medicare Premiums for me?
SPC Infantryman
3 yrs and some change as 11b active duty. Reenlisted for 4 more years going for 20 and was about to go to Fort Campbell but pissed hot (marijuana) due to personal family problems. Alcohol dont cure anything, it made it worst. DD214 stated completed first full term of service and was told that I would get G.I Bill. I still havnt gotten anything or even a letter back from my Discharge upgrade. What should I do next? I would love to use G.I bill to further my education.
Jessica Schiefer
Jessica Schiefer
>1 y
SPC (Join to see) Your local Vet Center may be able to assist you as they provide counseling services to combat Veterans, including those with an OTH discharge. Please let us know if we can connect you, otherwise you may find your nearest Vet Center at https://www.va.gov/find-locations/
MAJ Eva Weatherley
MAJ Eva Weatherley
>1 y
Thank you for posting your question. Often times discharge upgrade documents are erroneously mailed to the VA for processing, but they should be mailed to the appropriate service department address located on page 2 of the DD Form 293. As discharge upgrades are conducted by the respective service branch (such as Army (not VA)), I would suggest following up with your appropriate branch to check the status of your request. However, for general information on how to apply for a discharge upgrade, please feel free to visit https://www.va.gov/discharge-upgrade-instructions/.
SN Frederick Schneider
I tried getting qualified for ringing in ears and they set me up to have hearing test be it was canceled. then I received a determination letter saying I was denied. how can that be when I was never tested. they just brushed me off.
1SG Darrell Walker
1SG Darrell Walker
>1 y
Same issue, here. It is a little bit of a catch-22. You have to do two things. Establish you have a problem and establish it is service connected. All the VA will do is review your service medical records. If they see nothing, you will have to go through a process to get evidence submitted that establishes that, sworn statements, a doctor's opinion, etc. If you do not have insurance, you can go to your regional VA med center and ask for free or subsidized care. Keep in mind, there are a lot of people claiming that should not be and a lot that should be, and it is a complicated process. Patience and an appropriate level of humanity (towards an overworked and underappreciated VA staff that is made up of mostly of Vets like your self ) will help.
TSgt James Sutton
TSgt James Sutton
>1 y
i had similar issue, VA said I had perfect hearing, but I know in the mid 90's while at Holloman AFB working on the flight-line (15 years on the flight-line all told) that i failed 3 tests in a row but then miraculously passed. Was told they lowered my baseline, so is that why I still have occasional ringing and hearing issues but VA says my hearing is literally perfect across the board?
SN Frederick Schneider
SN Frederick Schneider
>1 y
I applied a few times had proper paper work from civilian dr. and see at regular VA and the set me up at VA hearing and when I got there they said my time was canceled. I worked in a ship with big generators and 2000lb. boilers
worked in alaska with giant gen. and dispatched of my ship to boots on the ground in NAM. AND THEY SAID NOTHING THEY COULD DO.....BOY THEY ARE TAKING CARE OF US VETS. ARE'NT they this is why vets give up , we sign to give up our lives if need be and we just get tossed aside when there through with us.
MAJ Eva Weatherley
MAJ Eva Weatherley
>1 y
Thank your for posting your question. In order to adequately address your question, some additional information would be needed. Please contact a VA representative at [login to see] to discuss your options to include your ability to have your examination rescheduled.
MAJ Lonny Nelson
If a VA facility cannot provide a professional level of care (iaw State and Federal guidelines), why can't I be seen through "Community Care"?
SGT Michael Conley
I am 100% disabled and have a DAV I, can my spouse get one as well?
PO3 Deidre Blascyk
PO3 Deidre Blascyk
>1 y
Hi SGT Conley, sorry I don't have a direct answer to your question but I wanted to tell you about a program for your spouse. Operation Family Caregiver offers a free coaching program for caregivers. Over the 8 sessions we will go over problem solving, stress management, and self-care. Our program is a great resource for both new and seasoned caregivers. If you would like more information for your spouse or to sign up please reach out to us at http://operationfamilycaregiver.org/ or reach out during this event.

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