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MSG Lance Kelly
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It's great to see women stepping into roles that have been dominated by men. Do people see the term "cable guy" as a man or a general term like mail man or the way people say, "You guys..."? When we say guy do people immediately think man or just a title? My mail person is a women and one day I said in front of my child "mail person" I received a positive acknowledgment for identify her as a mail person and not mail man. It makes a difference to some to be identified correctly as women are attempting to fill more roles dominated by men and not only want but deserved to be identified in that role. I have a lawn team of men that care for my lawn (I rent) and I refer to them as the "yard guys". If they had a woman on their team would I still refer to them that way or would I say, "yard people or yard team"? If a woman was part of the team and heard me say "yard guys" would she be offended? It wouldn't be my intent to mean guys as in solely males but instead guys in a general term of people. As for women, do you find that offensive? What is the best way going forward for men to identify women in roles that have been dominated by men? How personal do women take offense to a term that has been used for so long that change won't happen overnight? Georgeann, thank you for sharing and shedding light on issues that matter to women and how we as a society are aware and can make changes so women are acknowledged in their roles.
I noticed in the comment section of that article that a man responded, "Who cares?" then said why not write articles about men working in women dominate roles. Seriously?!?! Can you not take a minute and appreciate that women are seeking equality? There may be article like that but this one is about a women working for a cable company where the term "cable guy" implies they are men. Let's just focus on the point of this article and not get side tracked.
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I am from the Maryland area and I often refer to everyone as "you guys"----- boys, girls, women and men---heck even my cats. I feel like it is more of a generic term--- kind of like name brands that have taken on the name of the actual item--- like kleenex.
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MSG Lance Kelly
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I grew up with the term "guys" referring to a group of people. I think a lot of us use that term in a generic manner. But discussing with my wife she mentioned it can still be offensive to women. We can't please everyone but if we try to make a change and be aware of what we are saying just might make a difference. It might not offend you but what about the woman next to you? Do we tell her to get over it or do we acknowledge her and make a change? I know some will say you can't please everyone and that is very true, however, we can try to make people feel equal.
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SSG William Jones
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Quite interesting!!!
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