Posted on Nov 1, 2015
I was made to get out and I have only 1 year to retire. A SFC was messing around with my wife and I was told to keep quiet. Any advice?
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Why would you keep quiet? If you made it to SSG and don't know when/where to go outside of your CoC in a situation like this you really must not have paid any attention. If your CoC is involved in covering up adultery, which is against the UCMJ, the IG office I'm sure would like to know. Somehow I think there is more to the story than you are saying
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SSG Jeffery Rainey
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I had the same situation and it cost me my benefits.which I am in process of trying to get over turned. It can happen in am living proof
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MAJ (Join to see)
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Lol! I retired as a Major, luckily, same situation. This happens all the time. In many situations a female spouse wants her cake and to eat it too. While, the service member makes the real sacrifices, these spouses have affairs, cheat on their husbands. It happens so often I had a counselor tell me - ‘Don’t worry about it, every spouse cheats, my parents weren’t even married.’ So how it plays out in reality, if you don’t keep quite, is a tactic called quick-sanding, you will be saturated with so much force and legal bullshit that you will need a platoon of attorneys, and to win the lottery to keep up with it all. There are many woman out their looking for their free ride, to take advantage of service members, and willing to spend an eternity in hell to do so ....
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So I've looked through the comments and replies and I must say, this whole thing doesn't pass the sniff test.
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SSG Jim Beverly
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I was unaware of that, now things make a bit more sense. At least in that regard... 1SG Larry Taggart -
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