Posted on Jul 2, 2014
SGT Ben Keen
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Earlier today, my mom shared this picture on Facebook which was originally posted on the Military with PTSD Facebook page. Of course, my family knows about and understands the issues I have around this holiday. Not only is it the loud noises of the fireworks but also the smell of the black powder can trigger me. I'm okay as long as I know I'm somewhere that fireworks are being used and where they are being launched from. It's when I don't know, that I have issues.

So here is my question to the RP community. What are some ways you are able to continue to enjoy the holiday weekend with your friends and family while dealing with reactions we might face because of the fireworks.
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SGT Darryl Allen
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This is his problem, and nobody else's. While it would be fine for him to ask his neighbors to keep the fireworks to a minimum, the act of posting a sign and using his military affiliation and subsequent ailments as a means to guilt the community at large is unacceptable.

If he's got a trigger that's set off by fireworks, a set of noise-canceling headphones would be a sound investment.
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Capt Seid Waddell
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SGT Darryl Allen, agreed. I think he will only make his neighbors think of him as the screwy unstable neighbor that must be avoided. Those headphones are a great idea.
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SPC Edward Tapper
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TSgt Joshua Copeland, in my opinion, I feel like posting a sign, such as the example you shared, is going a little too far. To me, it almost mimics a threat or a challenge, almost certain to draw incoming (fireworks). I retired on disability from local government due to my service connected PTSD and COPD, I know full well that fireworks can be a trigger for me, but I don't post signs in my yard, daring someone to let off fireworks in my area. Effectively, the sign is a dare to pranksters. Fortunately, there are only seven homes on my street, everyone knows my condition with PTSD and they all give me a heads-up if they are going to let off fireworks or anything else that may disturb me, allowing me time to leave or be prepared for the unexpected loud pops and bangs. This was accomplished by getting to know my neighbors, explaining PTSD to them and they all offered to give me the warning. A win-win, for me and my neighbors, and no threatening signs.
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Bangs scare the shiate out of me. When I first got back my town tested an air siren and had me looking for cover under my truck. Had to explain to my wife what a "rocket alarm" was downrange.
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The base that I live nearby is having a fireworks event, staying clear of it. But I got moronic people living near me that think shooting a gun in the air is acceptable form of fireworks. Even a car backfiring makes me cringe. I will watch the fireworks from afar, but if I hear a gun go off and I can pinpoint it, cops will be called.
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As they should be SSG Garza...

In Iraq we would tell the Iraqi Army and Police to stop firing rounds into the air... What goes up must come down...

I hope you have a decent holiday, and furthermore hope that if the morons residing near you do such abhorrent actions - they can be met with the arm of the law... No excuse there.
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Anything that sounds like gunfire/explosions makes me jump out of my skin. I also don't live far from Gunter AFB in AL and every Wed when they test their PA system it takes a concious effort to not hit the floor.
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