Posted on Feb 21, 2026
PO3 Phyllis Maynard
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Lt Col Charlie Brown
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Married right out of Officers' Training School. i know I would not have made the service a career if I hadn't been married to my spouse...he has always been supportive...even when we were in head to head competition.
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MAJ Byron Oyler
MAJ Byron Oyler
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Probably one of the few that survived. At OBC we had a dream couple, both highly motivated and attractive. I thought their bond was strong. I do not believe they survived our first assignment and she is now dead, likely from copper toxicity from an IUD.
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Cpl Vic Burk
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PO3 Phyllis Maynard I refused to get married while on active duty. I saw too may problems with married guys because of deployments and other responsibilities that come with military life. My future father in law (Navy Veteran) told me I was making the right decision also.
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Cpl Vic Burk
Cpl Vic Burk
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PO3 Phyllis Maynard - No matter how strong a marriage is, how can it not be affected? When a couple settle down, they generally expect to be together, not split apart by other job obligations. (My opinion)
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CPT Lawrence Cable
CPT Lawrence Cable
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Cpl Vic Burk - I got married one weekend, then left for OCS the following Friday. She was a big help during my Active Duty periods, she took care of a lot of those time-consuming official task like registering a vehicle. Officer Wives always seemed to have their fingers on the pulse of the unit and I found mine to be very supportive. Plus being 800 miles from her family did a lot to making her a grown-up.
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PO3 Phyllis Maynard
PO3 Phyllis Maynard
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CPT Lawrence Cable the two of you conquered the world together.
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SSgt Richard Kensinger
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extremely important and a necessary component of my formation and enculturation
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PO3 Phyllis Maynard
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SSgt Richard Kensinger it sounds like your marriage was your grounding.
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