Posted on Jun 28, 2015
Anyone know of resources for an 18B4 separated from the military who needs a support group?
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His family has contacted me asking for information. I was told he has been unable to get the help he needs from the VA. They shared stories with me about his actions here, it sounds like he came home physically but not mentally.
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I can relate on how he is feeling after 10 year active duty army. My train of thought and emotion is not the same anymore and it's so hard dealing with people who never serve and they are always judging you. I'm on the verge of a breakup because her family fears for her daughter life even though she has told them I'm would never do anything to harm her. My B.S meter is very low and I don't play games.
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SGT Dupree, If you need to talk feel free to message me or to message those in this thread. You can see by the comments that there are other Soldiers more than willing to listen. Sometimes that is the most important thing to have, someone you can relate to who will listen and not judge. All the best to you.
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SSG Timothy McCoy
SGT John Dupree,
I totally agree with CPT M Cannonie. I am in western Oklahoma if you would like to take the time, to come out here, I have a very caring canyon,that enjoys listening and don't get up tight when screamed at.
If in another light my canyon has some very deaf catfish that aren't judgemental until you bring them out of there world into ours.
I am not trying to make light out of your situation, I am not any kind or professional guru or dude, I am just a old Grunt that make room for fellow soldiers.
Talk to someone, almost anyone even your favorite tree. By doing so you will then be practiced to talk to someone else more sympathetic that can help guide you back. You are NOT broken, you are NOT a problem, you are NOT THE PROBLEM, you ARE who you are and your daughter loves you oh so very much. She may not understand you, but you ARE the #1 man in her life and she need you to be her # ONE.
HtH
Tim
I totally agree with CPT M Cannonie. I am in western Oklahoma if you would like to take the time, to come out here, I have a very caring canyon,that enjoys listening and don't get up tight when screamed at.
If in another light my canyon has some very deaf catfish that aren't judgemental until you bring them out of there world into ours.
I am not trying to make light out of your situation, I am not any kind or professional guru or dude, I am just a old Grunt that make room for fellow soldiers.
Talk to someone, almost anyone even your favorite tree. By doing so you will then be practiced to talk to someone else more sympathetic that can help guide you back. You are NOT broken, you are NOT a problem, you are NOT THE PROBLEM, you ARE who you are and your daughter loves you oh so very much. She may not understand you, but you ARE the #1 man in her life and she need you to be her # ONE.
HtH
Tim
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I also had problems with the Va mental health. They wanted to put me inpatient for 3 months, and I refused. Then they said I could do a 3 day a week program, again I refused. Then I was told don't not get help, just so you can get a disability check. I walked out before punching the civilian psych doc. Someone told me about the Vet canter here in Boise, so I contacted them. I have been going to the Vet center for the last 5ish years and love it. Give the Vet center a try and see if it makes a difference for you. My Dr. is a vet not a combat vet, but we still relate. My counselor is a combat vet, he is good and helps a lot.
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CPT,
What sort of support group and what town/area does he live in? My wife is a case manager in the veteran services field and should be able to identify resources. PM me if you prefer.
What sort of support group and what town/area does he live in? My wife is a case manager in the veteran services field and should be able to identify resources. PM me if you prefer.
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Vet Centers should be able to assist, without regard to discharge status.
I posted the link to the Columbus facility.
http://www.va.gov/directory/guide/facility.asp?ID=420
I posted the link to the Columbus facility.
http://www.va.gov/directory/guide/facility.asp?ID=420
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Have him call Vets 4 Warriors. The have a crisis line - it's the one General Mark Graham set up http://www.vets4warriors.com/Contact.htm
Contact info for general, web, media inquiries as well as employment, and of course.....for peer support.
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the vet center has helped me alot ..the peer group is an awesome source to talk. .also pgr family helps to keep me home ..mentally
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Thanks for the information, do you know if he has submitted his paperwork to the VA representative in his area? 18B40 would be an SFC in SF, before he transitioned I am assuming he retired or medically retired? Those are different processes, so it would be good to know exactly what he has done prior to getting out, and if he has done his VA paperwork and if it has been accepted at his VA regional office.
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I have found it very helpful that if you can either start your own group outside of the VA it may help with anxiety. But if you can talk the docs' into building a group, that would also be very helpful. You may also find out after awhile that if the VA mental health will start that group that you can always start your own outside of that. That would be your back up and moral support if you don't feel like talking to someone on the phone or if you are scared to do that. Basically an outside group is what I have found out the way to go. Need any ideas you can look me up on Facebook under veterans sanctuary or send me a message.
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