Posted on May 22, 2016
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SSgt Terry P.
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SFC Stephen King I suspect that most will say all of them.
Candor to me is very important and usually takes care of the other two,if a person is honest,they usually are confident and of good character.J.M.O.
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SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
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SSgt Terry P. well said and articulately conveyed!
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SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
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SFC Stephen King they all our important, however I was embedded in 1989 in BCT, to display honesty first and foremost. Candor (the quality of being open and honest in expression; frankness) as step one. If you can't respect something or someone what the purpose. Great depiction. I was raised on the 4 Cs: courage, competence, candor and confidence. It actually was a question on my E-5 promotion board back in 1993. Wow 23 years later I see it again. Awesome read and share.
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SGT Brian Nile
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SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL you always inspire me Sarge! You should have made CSM in my opinion!
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CPT John Sheridan
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Candor, because trust matters above all. Character always sounds good, but requires further definition and is somewhat subjective. Confidence comes with trust.
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Candor, Character or Confidence...which is most important for a person display in relationships? Why?
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Candor would be #1 for Military relationships but competence would be my #1 work-wise. If you can use candor you already got the other two
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SFC Stephen King
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Great outlook. I like the balance
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CSM Darieus ZaGara
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One without the other does not allow for a complete personality, frankly more traits should be added to the list. I guess I cheated by saying all, Candor for me would take the lead! Candor can only be had when one is Confident, which depicts Character. Great post!!!
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SSG Avenger Crew Member
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I would say Character. As others have stated, the other two are embodied in Character.
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Cpl Mark A. Morris
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Great question,

Character, a solid one of Honor, will have the consistent appearance of all three words combined. Show me a person with character and I will show you a person that also has candor and confidence.

Let me hear your War Cry!

Mark A. Morris BS, RDMS, RVT
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CPT Company Commander
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Definitely Character. You can build Confidence, you can teach Candor, but Character is harder to fix.
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Col Rebecca Lorraine
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Character, although used as a positive, could also be associated with a negative: he/she was a "shady", "boisterous" or "deceitful" character, so honesty is always the best policy! The adjective describing type of character is more important.
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SFC Stephen King
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Col Rebecca Lorraine I agree. Thank you for your insight
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Candor.

If you speak honestly, you aren't going to be lying and displaying anything short of good character. If you speak honestly, you have no choice but to speak with confidence - even when you are ignorant about a specific situation (you'll readily admit that you're out of your league!).

That's just my ten cents, because my two cents are free.
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