Dealing with suicide

Cpl Micah Wing, thank you for being smart enough to talk about this with others. Agreeing with several others, you've already taken the first and best step - talk about it. Coping is never easy when death is fresh, but it gets easier with time. One never forgets those we've lost, and I can only hope that you weren't the one that found him, because that image is the hardest to get over. The next step is to take time to grieve about it, but don't spend all of your time grieving. To not express emotions can hurt you in many ways. Lastly, as 1SG (Join to see) mentioned, find productive ways to spend your time - usually with others. They can keep you encouraged and watch out for you. We're also here to help.

I know where your heart is. I've been there myself. Even to the point that I made an attempt on my own life in disparity. You need to find a possitive thing to put your energy and feeling into. Start a charity fundraiser or volunteer your off time to others. Know though in your Heart your brothers are here for you. You can go fishing, ride a motorcycle, or go for a walk. When you are ready then you can talk. We're here if you need us. Come to us in your time. Help is just beIng brave enough to go for a coffee. Camping if you've vacation time works too.

I am sorry man, if your around New England email me [login to see] and I will be glad to lend a helping hand. Even if your not email me and I will call you.

CPL Wing, I have dealt with the grief of suicide of a loved one, talking about the grief with family and brothers and sisters in arms can help strengthen ones resolve. Seek counseling from a chaplain or other leader you respect, counseling is a sign of strength and helps one on the path of life. Those who have endured this type of loss have the ability to help others. I said a prayer for you just now and your departed friends. Know that you have taken a solid step forward, be strong, continue to seek help and guidance, and know you have brothers and sisters here who really give a damn.

Talk to people I am here for you if you need it. I had a close friend we ran the S3 together he called out of the blue one day said he wanted to come down and eat got to meet his new baby boy and wife he finally got to see my family. We had dinner a few drinks went our separate ways. Next day his wife calls from his phone telling me what happened less than nine hours after we went home and he showed no signs. So I feel your pain like I said I am here if you need it

You can reach out to me anytime Cpl Wing. I'm a Doc who has spent his whole career with Marines, I deal with this daily and it hurts my heart every day hearing these stories. Give me a call anytime [login to see] I mean it brother, I'm always available.

Hello Cpl Wing,

I lost my first wife to an aneurysm. She was 25 and I was 28. What got me through was God, Friends and time. Loss is a roller coaster of emotions. Just when you are dealing well with things, a memory trigger brings everything back. That is when you have to smile and cherish that memory and be glad you were there with them to have that experience. I am very sorry you have lost so many brothers. My Faith and my friends were there. I now know (29 years later), that they wanted to be there and they wanted to help. Give them that opportunity. Let them be there when you need them.

God Bless,

Rick

I don't know if you are religious or not, but I suggest praying to God to help you through it. I had a friend who shot himself in the head...I even drove by his car moments before it happened. It tore me up. I became suicidal myself shortly after, but through the strength of prayer, I am still here. He listens and will hear your pleas for help. Rely on Him and your friends, and you will make it through it if you believe. Don't keep it in. Talk. And remember, there is nothing wrong with seeking professional help. I still see a psychiatrist to this day, and it's been many years since the incidents.

Just hang in there, Micah. And please remember this: the decision to end their lives is their decision, but you don't have to make the same one.

Cpl Micah Wing CPL Wing, no matter what you must carry on. You must be strong and unafraid to reach out for help, which you have done here with us. We all have your six and will do what we can.