Posted on Aug 5, 2014
Did you know that trauma blocks relationship, and it is imperative to reach out for help!
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Survivors guilt, anniversary of a loved one, the loss of a job, a miscarriage, chaotic environments. I do not want another Rally Point member to be isolated or commit suicide. Reach out and inbox myself or others, we are here to provide a safe place and support. All of you are a member of my Military family.
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The need for self-protection and interpersonal control arises from interpersonal control. I will share with you due to my Father who was a WWII Veteran and served at 15 years old, created a war environment for myself and our Mom.
The fear of being re-victimized shapes the personality and is due to early emotional neglect, and a chaotic childhood environment.
The fear of being re-victimized shapes the personality and is due to early emotional neglect, and a chaotic childhood environment.
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MAJ Derrick J.
CPT Davis / ALCON (aka all concerned):
I will start a new discussion thread to explain this in more detail.
I will start a new discussion thread to explain this in more detail.
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MAJ Derrick J.
RE: CPT Davis' Discussions About PTSD, Trauma And Related Concerns | RallyPoint
If you would like to know about what I will be posting on, one source you can go to is the ACES Study Conducted by Kaizer-Permanente'. ACES stands for Adverse Childhood Experiences. ------------------------------------------------------ COPYRIGHT NOTICE: What follows is unique to me, and has been authored /created by me. Therefore, all that follows is Copyright Protected and no permission is given, implied or granted to use, change, improve,...
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MAJ Derrick J.
Colonel (LTC) - you said:
"We all have "unresolved" issues. While there are times when these issues have to be addressed head on, I try to look ahead without spending too much time ruminating over the past. Often easier said than done."
You have just high lighted exactly one of the issues that I see in sessions all the time - "looking ahead," i.e. avoiding, the past. This is tantamount to saying, "get over it" or "forget it," and even "deal with it."
Most people don't know how to "deal with it," except to bury the issues somewhere in the "back 40" somewhere. The problem is, that back 40 gets filled to overflowing at some point, and those issues push themselves into life and relationships.
"We all have "unresolved" issues. While there are times when these issues have to be addressed head on, I try to look ahead without spending too much time ruminating over the past. Often easier said than done."
You have just high lighted exactly one of the issues that I see in sessions all the time - "looking ahead," i.e. avoiding, the past. This is tantamount to saying, "get over it" or "forget it," and even "deal with it."
Most people don't know how to "deal with it," except to bury the issues somewhere in the "back 40" somewhere. The problem is, that back 40 gets filled to overflowing at some point, and those issues push themselves into life and relationships.
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