Do you ever wonder if they are truly thankful for your service?

I didn't really do it for them. I didn't serve at a time when anyone was thanked for their service which didn't bother me because that was just how it was. I think it is awkward to have people thank me for something I didn't really do for them, specifically. I get a thank you occasionally, I think some do it because they think they should, some are probably sincere, it has really become almost a canned response when people find out you served.

I used to look at some folks with a cynical eye... didn't think they appreciated what they had & what sacrifices were made for their liberties. But as I've grown longer in the tooth, I stopped caring what others appreciated, or didn't appreciate. I find solace in knowing that they do, in fact, have those liberties. That's enough for me.

As another has said I did not serve for thank yous. But, they are nice to get anyway. I often answer please keep paying your taxes so my retirement checks keep coming. Most people laugh ans say they will.

Nope. It is not my problem but theirs. I am happy when they are but not my problem if they are not.

You can stop wondering.

I know they are not thankful for your service. Do it anyway though.
there are a lot of little stuff that ruff off that your services are not really that important. I shouldnt have to back this statement up with anything.

I came back from oversea with nothing (my fault really for poor planning). I ask my neighbor for over 7 years for help. He's one of the manager of a market making 6figures. Hey Joe, do you know anyone that can use my help? I spent 11 years serving the USAF, I need an introduction to some of your friend who may need help. Guess what he said? I am sorry, but I dont really know you.

To think I sacrificed my livelihood so he can live in peace making his 6 figures. If he gets shot up in front of me, should I save his butt? Or should I tell him that I dont really know him, and I wouldnt put my life out there for his sake.

Not all. Some say it because they truly mean it. Others say it because they feel socially obligated.

Wow! Yes to almost all of the above. I feel somewhat seperated from the fold. I try to respond with an educated answer or solution when this occurs. I often wonder if it's lack of understanding or education about the Military or for fear that someone will get angry for asking. Great thought provoking question for sure!