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I ETS'd exactly 10 years ago today.
It brings me a lot of sadness considering that I would still be in if it were up to me.
How long have you been out, and if you were capable, would you still be in?
It brings me a lot of sadness considering that I would still be in if it were up to me.
How long have you been out, and if you were capable, would you still be in?
Posted >1 y ago
Responses: 84
Highly granular question I medically retired in 2010 after 8.0 years & 3 deployments (OIF & 2x OEF). I had a great career and had just started having the success I wanted in the military & started to enjoy it especially after my second deployment. Now on that I hated being a junior HM and my first two years where rough training commands then 6 months to Iraq. I actually hated being in the military my first year. I returned to command after going to Iraq I did get a lot more respect and received a NAM & CAR and did pick up 3rd class in that time. A year later I went on a second deployment to OEF and returned back to command after 15 months (3 month work up 12 month deployment) and was an E-5 & this is when I really did start enjoying the military. My senior leadership was great and I received a lax job working for a Chiropractor. It got a lot better my command was pretty lax and I started attending college in my off time. I made a good group of friends & guys in the barracks. We got an apartment out in town and really just had a good time. At this time I realized I started having problems from my two previous deployments but figured I would deal with it after I got out.
I extended my contract after 5 years so I could deploy a 3rd time and save some more money for college. I had always planned on getting out so I figured I would return from this deployment pocket my BAH and have 6 months to plan my exit. I deployed a 3rd time and unfortunately was injured early on in the deployment as in the 3rd week in country & was MEDEVACd out. Now after I was put through a MEB and it was determined I would medically retire. Now my chain of command was great during this time pretty much let me do what I wanted to do and allowed me to attend school during the day and where incredibly supportive. It took 18 months from start to finish but I did a lot of nothing except go to school during that time.
Now when I first got out I was so happy to be done with the military no more BS, no more watch, no more deployments, being able to have a stable relationship. I was 25 was collecting retirement, almost done with undergrad, had money saved, and had no bills. I stayed in the area to finish undergrad after I retired & my roommates where all in the military so I was still "in the loop". I graduated and then moved back to where I am from and went to law school to do a JD/MBA. Even during this time
I recently attended a retirement ceremony of a guy I served on my second deployment with. It did make me slightly miss being in the military and the comradery which I do not have in the civilian world. I have since had success in the civilian world and have achieved most my personal goals at 38. I am incredibly proud of my service and it is something that has shaped me for better & worse. I do miss the guys I served with grabbing drinks on Friday, going to the bars, leadership (i always had great leaders), having time dedicated to working out but it was time to move on.
I extended my contract after 5 years so I could deploy a 3rd time and save some more money for college. I had always planned on getting out so I figured I would return from this deployment pocket my BAH and have 6 months to plan my exit. I deployed a 3rd time and unfortunately was injured early on in the deployment as in the 3rd week in country & was MEDEVACd out. Now after I was put through a MEB and it was determined I would medically retire. Now my chain of command was great during this time pretty much let me do what I wanted to do and allowed me to attend school during the day and where incredibly supportive. It took 18 months from start to finish but I did a lot of nothing except go to school during that time.
Now when I first got out I was so happy to be done with the military no more BS, no more watch, no more deployments, being able to have a stable relationship. I was 25 was collecting retirement, almost done with undergrad, had money saved, and had no bills. I stayed in the area to finish undergrad after I retired & my roommates where all in the military so I was still "in the loop". I graduated and then moved back to where I am from and went to law school to do a JD/MBA. Even during this time
I recently attended a retirement ceremony of a guy I served on my second deployment with. It did make me slightly miss being in the military and the comradery which I do not have in the civilian world. I have since had success in the civilian world and have achieved most my personal goals at 38. I am incredibly proud of my service and it is something that has shaped me for better & worse. I do miss the guys I served with grabbing drinks on Friday, going to the bars, leadership (i always had great leaders), having time dedicated to working out but it was time to move on.
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The camaraderie, yes. The bullshit and politics, no. Eight years of progressive politics have eroded my faith in the electoral system, accountability and leadership as a whole. By time '13 rolled around, I'd had enough. That said, there are times I think I should've stuck it out one more hitch. But there was no way I was going back to the east coast, let alone anywhere near the Beltway. Those were my only options, which made punching at 20 a pretty attractive choice.
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I retired after 18 1/2 years (early out) in 1995. The last couple of years, while the Army was struggling to redefine its mission at the end of the Cold War, I found miserable. Up to that point I had great success and fun (and a real world, relevant function), but I noticed my own performance suffering.
On top of that I was 45 years old and it seemed every day I had to work harder to maintain an acceptable level of physical condition.
Once 'early out' RIF hit my grade and MOS (E-7, Armor), I jumped. Cost me 5% of retired pay. Everything else was stat.
Not a single day since have I awoken to wish I could don a PT uniform or fatigues.
On top of that I was 45 years old and it seemed every day I had to work harder to maintain an acceptable level of physical condition.
Once 'early out' RIF hit my grade and MOS (E-7, Armor), I jumped. Cost me 5% of retired pay. Everything else was stat.
Not a single day since have I awoken to wish I could don a PT uniform or fatigues.
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I miss the Army. I miss the early days especially. Even BCT. Life has never been as organized as it was in BCT. I went through as a 22-year-old, and I really took in the experience. Eco 1/61 Sept. - Nov. 2005. I miss the people I trained with back then. After that, when I got to the NG, it was a mess. A disorderly disorganized mess. I don't miss much of that. If I could go back and do it all over, I would have gone active duty. I regret that to this day.
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I retired in June of 2013 and I definently do miss the people I served with at Fort Benning. I also miss Fort Benning because that post has a lot of military history along with the National Infantry Museum. I know I'm not able to go back in because of 5 deployments and medical issues but make no mistake about it I would still be in doing what I loved to do and that was serving in the United States Army as an NCO The BackBone of The Army.
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My EAOS was 23FEB08. Do I miss the military? No, I have never once regretted my decision to get out. Do I miss some of the people? Yes.
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SGT Mitch McKinley, I was assigned to the Retired Reserve on 11MAY98 and officially retired on 18MAR09. Do I miss it? Absolutely. That's why the interaction on RP has been so engaging.
I've been out longer than most people have been in, so I don't delude myself about serving again. However, if I could serve, I would.
I've been out longer than most people have been in, so I don't delude myself about serving again. However, if I could serve, I would.
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I miss the people, but not the paperwork or the bureaucracy. I served 27 years on Active Duty, Reserve Duty and in the IRR. June is my 2nd year in the Retired Reserves, with 9 more years to go until I am fully retired. If I could go back in, I would, but I am now past my mandatory removal date. There are retiree deployments, but they are rare and likely not worth the hassle. I keep in touch with some of my still serving peers, but less and less. It was a fun ride. I am glad I took it.
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I left the Army (which I absolutely loved) after my second enlistment to follow a call into Christian ministry that I received while on active duty. Do I miss the Army? ABSOLUTELY!!!! Yet, I don't regret the discission. If you are a soldier in your heart you will always love your military days. Yet, there are greater battles and victories ahead of you! God has a greater Army for you to join:
Thou therefore endure hardness, as a good soldier of Jesus Christ. -2 Timothy 2:3
Thou therefore endure hardness, as a good soldier of Jesus Christ. -2 Timothy 2:3
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