Posted on Jan 21, 2015
SPC Larry Buck
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All active duty stand down(but don't walk away, this will effect you later) Veterans does it ever bother you to hear that? "Thank you for your service" I apologize but it mmmm...bugs me something awful, telling me " your done go sit down and grow feeble " needs changed to something that endures like we do something like "YO JOE!" or another saying meaning get outta my way theres work to do and I ain't done yet! Forgive if I wasted your time, just wondering.
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SSG Keith Cashion
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Actually, as I came through the Gates this morning the MP stated Thank you for your service, and Replied the same to him...his answer...just carring on where I left off.
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Col Joseph Lenertz
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Bother me? Not at all. Many people just don't have any experience or know anyone in the military. They don't know exactly what to say, so they pick this line that they've heard. At least they're trying.
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SGT Reynaldo De La Torre
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Sometimes. Especially from law enforcement because they serve also. I don't ask for, or usually accept the discounts or attention. There are soldiers (many of them kids)
down range right now who don't know if they'll make it home. They deserve the attention more than I do. My time passed.
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TSgt Hh 60 G Maintainer
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It doesn't so much "bother" me to be thanked for my service, because I know that the sentiment behind it is one of respect and gratitude.

It DOES, however make me kind of befuddled at how to respond because it is the career I chose, and I feel that I am good at it. I don't do this for the praise, or medals, or the money (although getting paid twice a month is always a good thing). I do it because I honestly think there is a "Patriot Gene" in my family that compels us to serve (my 17 year old son just enlisted for 11X, and will go to BCT in August) and thus I do it for our country and for the sake of giving back. So when someone thanks me for my service, I usually manage to either say "thank you for your support" or "it's what I do" if I am caught off-guard.

Never decline gratitude or respect. Those are two things that are hard to come by these days.
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A1C Ronald McKenzie
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I served during Nam and I remember being advised not to leave the air terminal in uniform when I flew into Washington DC. Being connected to the service was a negative then.

While it doesn't bother me a bit to hear, "Thank You for your service," it still feels strange to hear it after such a long time of nothing being said. There's another part of feeling strange to hear the thanks and that's because those who didn't come back or came back partially are the ones who really earned it the most. So, I gracefully accept the thank yous for those absent souls.
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SPC Larry Buck
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How did that photo get there, I don't recall putting one up definitely do not have that one!?
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SPC Larry Buck
SPC Larry Buck
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Smart guy...
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CH (CPT) Heather Davis
CH (CPT) Heather Davis
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True Leaders recognize those have paved the way!! I look at it as everyone serves, and many that take the time to say thank you for you for serving!! (were Veterans that previously served!! Say thank you for paving the way!! Thank you for your support!! Thank you for your prayers!!
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MCPO Roger Collins
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When the statement is serious, rather than perfunctory, absolutely not.
But, most of the time is isn't.
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MCPO Hans Brakob
MCPO Hans Brakob
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Serious, perfunctory, or something in between, another person has taken the time to say thanks and to acknowledge your service. With all due respect, Chief, it seems pretty c/s to "grade" the level of their thankfulness.
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MCPO Roger Collins
MCPO Roger Collins
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MCPO Hans Brakob - And you know the old saying about opinions.
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MCPO Roger Collins
MCPO Roger Collins
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As a follow up on my rather terse statement, I submit this. One of the people at admissions at the local hospital saw my Rate and said he had never met a MCPO, he was a former Army 2nd LT. He took the time to talk to me and it was easy to see when he made the statement, he meant it. One of the Home Depot workers saw my license plate, he thanked me and talked about my experience, he meant it. During a road check by the State Police, the officer saw the plate and thanked me, I could tell he means it. It is not a matter of thanking me as much as the sincerity. As stated earlier, I feel I got more from the military than I gave, despite the career over which I served. When I see sincerity, I truly appreciate the comment from anyone, when I see it is something that is merely what is expected from the public, not so much. I saw what happened to our VN Vets during and upon their return, and will never forget those that treated them so shabbily. If anyone deserves that statement it is them.
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Sgt Jim Bower
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Yes, it bothers me and always has. If fact, it makes me sick. No one told us that back late 60's or early 70's. In fact, many of us suffered the effects of Honorably serving our country. I was never spit on, but I did lose a shot at working for Southern Railroad because they said my hearing was bad. I told them they had not even administered a hearing test. They said it didn't matter, if I flew on helocopters I Must have lost some hearing. That was just a way to pass over me. Also had a college history professor named Krueger that failed me on a test. When I showed him in the book word for word that my answer was right, he just shrugged and said "Too Bad." He, in years later was featured in a news article about discriminating against vets in his classes and he bragged about it. So when I hear the words "Thank You For Your Service," it conjures up all the crap I went through. An apology should be made to those of us that served 40 or 50 years ago. Just saying the words don't mean anything.
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Sgt Gregory Myers
Sgt Gregory Myers
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Sounds like you have deeper issues to deal with. When an American citizen, whom we served offers their thanks be appreciative. At least they are acknowledging your service in a positive manner. I too have dealt with employment issues, get over it. I have had potential employers NOT hire me because I am a disabled vet. Their reasoning is that they are concerned that I may not be able to fulfill the duties of the job. Does it hurt? Yes, but I have learned to deal with it and move on. I don't have time to waste on hating those that choose to hate on us.
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Sgt Jim Bower
Sgt Jim Bower
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Sgt Myers. I don't Hate anyone. I don't have the capacity to hate. I never mentioned Hate anywhere in my statement. I said it made me sick. I inferred that I didn't like it. I didn't say that I have never corrected or insulted anyone for saying it. I Thanked them as any knowledgeable Vet would do. The question was asked "how do you feel about it." I answered the question honestly. Would you have wanted me to lie about it? And Please, don't tell me to "get over it." It sounds a little combative and we've already been there. And No, I don't [lan on voting you down because you have a right to your opinion. I believe you and I both stood for that once.
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MAJ Peter Barber
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Bother? I find the comment rather condescending. I was a professional soldier with 23 years as enlisted and as an officer. I was, for many years, well compensated and continue to be with a nice pension and benefits.

No one thanks the mail carrier who spent 23 years delivering the mail in all kinds of weather.
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Sgt Gregory Myers
Sgt Gregory Myers
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Well Major, I actually do thank my mail carrier.You seem to be a bit ingrateful to those whom you served. Enjoy your retirement.
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Sgt Jim Bower
Sgt Jim Bower
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So anyone that disagrees with you either has "deeper issues" as you said about me, or are "ingrateful" as you diagnosed the Major. You seem to have a real problem with freedom of speech. All you want to do is insult people, and fellow Veterans at that. You seem to be nothing more than a miserable person that wants to pick a fight.
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Sgt Gregory Myers
Sgt Gregory Myers
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You actually seem to be the one who desires to pick a fight. I am in fact not miserable and fully support your right to free speech. We all swore to support and defend the same Constitution. You have your opinions, I have mine. We can agree to disagree.
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