Posted on Jan 21, 2015
Does it bother you to hear "Thank you for your service!"?
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All active duty stand down(but don't walk away, this will effect you later) Veterans does it ever bother you to hear that? "Thank you for your service" I apologize but it mmmm...bugs me something awful, telling me " your done go sit down and grow feeble " needs changed to something that endures like we do something like "YO JOE!" or another saying meaning get outta my way theres work to do and I ain't done yet! Forgive if I wasted your time, just wondering.
Posted 11 y ago
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At first, when I was a mere ROTC cadet and I was in uniform (and civilians didn't know the difference), I felt like I had to apologize, because I hadn't really served. But after a few years, I realized that "thank you for your service" was not about me. It was about me representing every other person wearing that uniform. This whole situation took on an entirely different character from then on. I graciously accept that small gesture now (and now I'm actually in, though I'm still fairly new around here) because I see it as a "thank you" to everyone in uniform.
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It's not about how YOU feel. It's about how the sender feels. They feel like they are being proactive and THEY ARE. As uncomfortable as I feel, I try to keep that attitude alive in the public by responding professionally and courteously and not be an a__hole who questions their greeting. When I am in uniform and I am told "Thank you for your service" I say "It is my Honor",shake his or her hand if it is offered, and move on. Out of uniform, same thing. The majority of the public means what they say. Most don't know what else to say.
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It doesn't bother me a bit. It's a sign of respect and appreciation for selfless service and sacrifice for our country. I tell it to current and former service members often and appreciate it when it's said to me. I'd say lighten up and be respectful to those that appreciate your service!
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Nope - considering that during my service there were signs up in Norwalk, Virginia saying "Sailors and Dogs keep off the grass". We got the shaft while on duty and I think it is great that finally being thanked for my 9 years.
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No it doesn't bother me but I always think it took long enough. Vietnam vets set the standard that happens today. We were crapped on and treated like criminals. I, personally went into my hole and didn't come out of it until after I finally went to the VA. I was a combat vet and saw too many things a 20 year old shouldn't see. I tried joining the VFW and the DAV and the American Legion but was turned down because they didn't consider Vietnam a war. So, I never joined and never have had anything to do with them. The VA awarded me 100% disability but I'm still in a hole. When someone thanks me, I think why couldn't that have been done when I came home from Vietnam.
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SPC Mark Beard
Brother Keith as sgt at arms of American legion post 217 College park Md I want to thank you for your service and long over do welcome Home my brother it would be our honor to join our post
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PFC Zanie Young
Considering I have cousins who have served in Vietnam, I have heard the stories, and it is a shame that our country turned their backs on the survivors. I, for one, thank all veterans, no matter where they served, because it allowed me to make my own mark while serving, no matter how significant. From one vet to another, thank you for paving the way for me!
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I thank everyone in uniform, and everyone who wears a hat stating when/where they served, and say "Welcome Home" to every Vietnam vet I see. Sometimes the reactions bring tears. Tears are painful memories leaving the soul.
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SGT (Join to see)
Lest we forget those brave soldiers who fought in horrible conditions in Korea, and won!
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As a Viet Nam vet I was reviled for my service by many for a number of years. So I find it encouraging when I am now thanked. I also make sure to pay it forward whenever I meet an active duty brother or veteran.
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It bothered me for a while because I did not know how to respond. To thank them back seemed wrong, just odd. But I did appreciate the fact that they were acknowledging my service and defense of their freedom and way of life.
Now I say " I appreciate that" ,smile and shake their hand if offered. It seems to make them happy and satisfies my need to acknowledge them in turn.
Now I say " I appreciate that" ,smile and shake their hand if offered. It seems to make them happy and satisfies my need to acknowledge them in turn.
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