Posted on Jan 21, 2015
Does it bother you to hear "Thank you for your service!"?
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All active duty stand down(but don't walk away, this will effect you later) Veterans does it ever bother you to hear that? "Thank you for your service" I apologize but it mmmm...bugs me something awful, telling me " your done go sit down and grow feeble " needs changed to something that endures like we do something like "YO JOE!" or another saying meaning get outta my way theres work to do and I ain't done yet! Forgive if I wasted your time, just wondering.
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I appreciate hearing that even though it was my choice to enlist and defend. We are a special breed and therefore hearing this from those who are truly grateful means a lot. I even thank a veteran when the chance arises.
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I must admit that sometime I am annoyed by this, but for different reasons than the ones stated in the OP. I am happy that people recognize the sacrifices we all have made, but I don't feel comfortable with the "accolades" that seem to come with it.
I didn't join to get recognized. None of us did. I don't know why, it just makes me feel weird. I would much rather people support those who didn't make it, or who came back broken, both in body and spirit. That's just me.
I didn't join to get recognized. None of us did. I don't know why, it just makes me feel weird. I would much rather people support those who didn't make it, or who came back broken, both in body and spirit. That's just me.
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No it doesn't bother me. And my response is always the same, Your Welcome. Most civilians are truly thankful for your service. As an OIF vet, I even thank Vietnam and any other vets I run into because I'm thankful.
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It doesn't bother me at all. It its the acknowledgment alone that made me proud to serve. I had an illustrious career, got to travel across the globe, worked with fine soldiers, learned new cultures & skills, and used that experience in my civilian life. Granted I didn't achieve high ranking (Retired as CPL), though had various opportunities to advance but to chose other venues, the fact I had the opportunity to wear the uniform is praise enough. It may not come up as the primary conversation starter, but when asked, I gladly respond humbly "you are welcome" and DRIVE ON!!
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My service was too long ago, never heard that directed at me much. I think with many people that say it, its kind of a catch phrase that in reality, does not come with a lot of heart felt emotion anymore, but just a natural response to hearing someone served. But like someone else said, its a lot better than what the guys went through in the 60's and early 70's for sure.
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I was in the Air Force. I was in during peacetime, and not in combat, in a combat zone, and I do feel what I did back then, is nothing compared to the guys who were in combat, and fighting today what I think should have been over a long time ago, and swiftly, and decisively. I tell guys I see that are new vets, and I admit to them that I have nothing on them or what they have done, and seen.
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I am not going to lie, it does make me feel a bit uncomfortable. I was never one that liked to be thanked for anything I did, especially when it was something I wanted to do, but that's just me. I think it's good that people actually take the time to appreciate our service though. Whenever someone thanks me for my service, I say "thank you" shake their hand and that's usually the end of it.
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It depends. Occasionally, it feels obligatory. I always thank them bank, but the reality is that I did not serve to later be thanked.
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Sometimes, when I sense they are groping for something to say or they say that and then follow up with a comment that demeans service or otherwise shows their non-support. Most of the time, I accept it at face value and thank them for the support.
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