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Edit: Ok that really didn't answer anything. Basically I was scared crapless and reacted to save my buddies and my life. I just wanted to get back home in one piece. Just listen to your NCO's, keep an eye out for everyone and everything, and DON'T TOUCH THINGS ON THE GROUND UNLESS YOU PUT IT THERE! Oh, and don't eat every meal at the DFAC. You get fat like that....One Tubby Tubby....Two Tubby Tubby! Hope that helps.
Edit: Ok that really didn't answer anything. Basically I was scared crapless and reacted to save my buddies and my life. I just wanted to get back home in one piece. Just listen to your NCO's, keep an eye out for everyone and everything, and DON'T TOUCH THINGS ON THE GROUND UNLESS YOU PUT IT THERE! Oh, and don't eat every meal at the DFAC. You get fat like that....One Tubby Tubby....Two Tubby Tubby! Hope that helps.
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SSG VNicia Young
Thank you very much!!! It does help a lot... Just missing my family but get to talk to them and video chat so I am starting to get a set schedule and not worry to much
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My first deployment was Desert Shield in August of 1990, there wasn't much to do during downtime except read, play chess, and of course...play cards.
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SSG VNicia Young
Yes I play cards do my school work or sleep especially with us on 12hr shifts and no days off
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Well, I was excited, cuz we were getting in the game we were training for! Then, the deployments are long, and got longer in my time (80-13), and could be boring at times. Then in no time they can jump to exciting, adrenaline pumping, horrifying, and depressing; all in one day. I dealt with it/them, by staying busy. When I was not busy, I was getting ready, and when I was not getting ready, I was reading or writing; this was long before the internet and social media. SSG VNicia Young Air Assault!
There was a time when I (we) was first on line when missions (deployments) came up, then over time, while I never avoid any deployments (I say that because too many did avoid them), I was no longer racing to get to the head of the line, but I got on line.
In 33 years, and I spent over 30 months deployed in combat, and also many other months on the other operational and training missions. Not huge to some, I know, but still significant.
I only regret the impacts it had on my family, who were left waiting and worrying. When deployed, you are busy, the time flies by... For my wife and family back home, life goes on, time drags on, while they fear daily that someone in uniform will knock on the door one day.... I don't how they did it/do it. My part was clearly the easy part.
There was a time when I (we) was first on line when missions (deployments) came up, then over time, while I never avoid any deployments (I say that because too many did avoid them), I was no longer racing to get to the head of the line, but I got on line.
In 33 years, and I spent over 30 months deployed in combat, and also many other months on the other operational and training missions. Not huge to some, I know, but still significant.
I only regret the impacts it had on my family, who were left waiting and worrying. When deployed, you are busy, the time flies by... For my wife and family back home, life goes on, time drags on, while they fear daily that someone in uniform will knock on the door one day.... I don't how they did it/do it. My part was clearly the easy part.
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SSG VNicia Young
Thank you! Yes I think time has been going by fast for me. Don't really have any down time and I stay busy in the TOC, but its my family that I miss and they are having a hard time dealing with it. My son is old enough to know but not really understand. He is 7 years old and it broke my heart for him to tell me I need to come home its not the same, and that its my fault I had to leave him with my husband. I asked him why was it my fault and he said because I picked this job. That hurt me inside, and my mother worries everyday that she will get that knock on the door. My husband is military so he understands and is dealing with it. He has not quite got use to all the motherly duties on the other hand that I did when it was just me but he is hanging in there. He definitely appreciate me being home more now.
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It helped that I wasn't a wet behind the ears private. Prior to leaving CONUS the NCO's got together w/the PSG and we put our input on what we would like to have or need. Since we we not an RA unit we had much more experience than most units. Once in country we started the crawl, walk ,run. We left the freezing Ft. Drum and got off the plane in Kuwait where the temp. was 110 in the shade (it was only May ! ) We were an Engineer Co. so we had all kinds of tools we packed. We took pallets apart and made furniture using the old nails. We started filling sand bags, we did patrolling and Infantry tasks to help get acclimated. We had to wait for our equipment to arrive at the port so we had time.
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SSG VNicia Young
Yea I was in Korea before but I was single and was not close to my family. Now, I am very close to my family married and have a little boy. Time is flying for me but they worry and is not use to me not being there
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SSG Nick Tramontano
I'm single but had a girlfriend when I deployed. I was able to see her part way through as I was bounced back to conus for a few months after getting hurt. I can't imagine what it's like to be a parent with young children and have to deploy.
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SSG VNicia Young
I no it truly hurts and when I come home 3 months after my husband deploy for a year
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SSG VNicia Young
Yes I work out eat and sleep. Time is flying for me but not for my family. I think about them so much! I miss them I am not use to being away from home like this. My husband had not quite got use to all the mommy duties either.
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I've noticed the same with my wife. It was hard for her to get used to all the stuff that I would normally do around the house. There are days where it goes by pretty quick and other days that are slow. It's really all about how you deal with it and the attitude that you have. If you're miserable, your deployment is going to be terrible.
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There's always something to do. Facebook and Skype helps a lot. Should have no problem keeping busy.
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SSG VNicia Young
Yes, I work out or try to see my family, sometimes its hard with my schedule and the time difference. A lot of times I call my son already in bed for school, my family is sleep and my husband is on his way to bed for work and drop my son off. Then by the time I get up my son already at school. They time difference really makes it hard.
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CPO Sor Ruiz-Valderrama
i get it.. i worked 12 hour days 7 days a week. when I was done, i'd go wash up, put in a movie catch up on emails quickly and go to bed.. the days went faster that way... if there is a gym, go to the gym for about an hour.. wash up, check email, go to bed and start the day all over again... sleep and rest as much as you can working hours like that you will need your rest in order to keep accurate vigilance...
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CPO Sor Ruiz-Valderrama
Good luck to you Miss Young!! thank you for your service!! and if you need to chat anytime, about anything, I am here for you... [login to see]
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My first deployment I was a LCpl (2) weeks into the fleet I was deployed to Iraq Camp Cupcake, I spent less than a week there before hoping a ride to Al Qaim where I spent the rest of my deployment. The Al Anbar Pro. was the last stronghold so we where consistently attacked I saw alot and experienced alot as well. I grew so much during that deployment, so much so that when I came back my wife and family could tell. I wouldn't change anything...I actually enjoyed my time
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Sleep keep your mind calm its what you trained for , over thinking is to be avoided . Know the mission ,focus on the preparations. And don't b s yourself , into thinking this is your chance to be a glory hound. Cause it's testing time ,you will either be a Go or No Go at this station , oh don't forget to point the business end of Your weapon at the enemy and breathe ,squeeze the trigger ,don't jerk it . After that let the battle come to you ...
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