Posted on Nov 14, 2013
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Many have argued that "bad things happen" in the military environment. For example, I recently read and opinion that stated when men and women are together in stressful combat environments it is almost inevitable for them to fraternize (whether they are allowed to by regulation or not). What it sounds like to me is that we're allowing circumstances under which lapses and breeches of good order and discipline are OK and even expected. This makes me wonder. How do leaders shape the "military environment?" What role does popular culture play? What role does the military culture play and where does the military culture come from? Are we just victims of circumstances or can we actually steer the ship so to speak?
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This is a broad question, but the short answer is:

1. Lead by example

2. Take and provide  mentoring from seniors, peers and subordinates. There is a lot of good and bad advice out there, with time you lean to keep the good and get rid of the bad.

3. A wise General once told me that to be a successful Leader, one must have a well grounded and balanced tripod (1. God 2. Family 3. Country).  If one is missing love or fulfillment from one area you will seek love and fulfillment from other possible negative places.  Best advice a got.


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Good clear and concise answer.  We lead by example ... and must make sure we're setting the right example!  If you follow the other two recommendations by CPT Montanez, your chances of setting the right example will improve.
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Sir, what if the Soldier doesn't have a relationship with God, doesn't have a family support system, and doesn't feel about his or her country the way we think he or she should. What if the military is "just another job" to them?
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So I recognize and appreciate a couple of key points here. First, all of the respondents are senior personnel. That's great in that there is a lot of wisdom and experience talking here. The bias, though, is that we were at least all influenced by the same kinds of values and beliefs. The difference I see is that Joe doesn't feel the same way. He doesn't think of right vs wrong or appropriate vs inappropriate the same way. We probably don't feel like the standard changes just because we take the uniform off, for example. Joe often does. So, how do we help our Soldiers (Sailors, Airmen, Marines, and Coastguardsmen) come to that reality?
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are you suggesting that we modify our expectations based on the current trends of the younger generations?  We likely didn't have the same values and beliefs when we were new to the service as we do now.  Our leaders molded us into the people we are today and that's part of our role with our junior servicemen and women.  If they have a different understanding of right and wrong or what is appropriate behavior then we can coach and mentor them to be in line with the values of our military.
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SFC Tyler, you make an excellent point about our (senior leaders) perspective, and clearly what are generational differences in culture. Those realities confront each generation as society evolves, and we are not exempt. The solution may lie in our capacity to determine what are the significant issues for which nothing less than strict adherence is required and what are those things which are not our preference, but do not impact unit performance.   

 

My observation about recent additions to our work force is the lack of a sound and firmly fixed set of personal core values. This absences translates directly to breaches in behavioral standards, and is frequently the root of our most significant problems.    

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(heavy fingers on the keyboard) If we live the example that we should, and work to establish positive relationships with our junior people, I think that gives us a solid place from which to begin transforming the workforce. There is a very pronounced "what's in it for me" attitude in the workforce today, and as mentors we must use that to our advantage to demonstrate that adherence to organizational standards and core values coupled with hard work does actually benefit the service member by increasing opportunities for personal success.

 

We must also recognize that we may be required to sort the wheat from the chaff. As a newly minted chief, I had a supervisor tell me, "There are times when you will need to identify those people you can save from those you can't. Spend your time with those who going places and realize that there's nothing you can do those people who aren't." In the coming times of fiscal austerity, sorting the wheat from the chaff is going to be a necessity. We can't afford to have members who don't have that military mindset 24/7.

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An excellent question for us all to consider, SFC Tyler.  There are two pieces to this issue, I think: 1) those things we can control and 2) those that are beyond our control.

As for (1) we owe it to ourselves, our organizations, and our military in general to enforce the standards and behave as the professionals we are.  If we all do this we'll have less of the "bad things" you allude to.  If we are willing to hold our buddies accountable, face them when they've screwed up, and accept their feedback when we have, then we'll have less of the "bad things."  We can care about our subordinates without being their buddy.  We can develop their trust without going out drinking with them.

As for (2) if we all do as my 1SG regularly reminded me and "focus on our bubble - make our bubble as good as possible" then this one will begin to take care of itself.

As leaders in the best military on the planet, we are absolutely not victims of circumstance.  We are as good as we are because of strong, competent, and dedicated leaders of days gone by.  We will stay that good if we do the same.
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How do we (as leaders) shape the "military environment?"
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I have observed the same thing in high speed military environments as well as a similar phenomenon in civilian public safety (law enforcement, firefighting, hazmat, etc.). While shared experiences (particularly stressful ones) are frequently catalyst for building team unity, they like every other facet of military life must be managed appropriately or the positive results may ultimately become a negative influence. As leaders, it's on us to establish the tone for how this situation evolves in our environment. If we allow an air of informality to creep in while involved in difficult circumstances, we begin the slippery slope towards more egregious breakdowns in discipline, and such events in high stress situations will be used to justify them in less troublesome times.

 

We are not victims of circumstances. We have the opportunity to create and maintain the military culture, and as leaders, it's on us to exactly that. For some exceptional insight into how it should be (and has been) done, read Band of Brothers; see the mini series; and watch some of the interviews with Major Dick Winters about this very subject. He repeatedly cautioned his subordinate leaders about allowing an unmilitary familiarity to invade their commands which would degrade the ability of senior leaders to enforce discipline. He understood the implications; behaved accordingly; and despite enduring some of the most brutal combat witnessed by his generation managed to maintain his professional standing within his command. At the conclusion of his service, he is not liked in the conventional sense regarding popularity; he revered by his subordinates in a way that is deeply rooted in respect born of solid performance.

 

Our culture is the product of centuries of tradition, heritage, regulations, rules and customs. It is our charge and our responsibility to hold fast to those things; and to maintain the appropriate culture. If we as leaders are unwilling to do precisely that, then our organizations will change with the winds of popular social convention. Our military culture is what makes us different...makes us special like no other organization in the nation.

 

Senior chief rant complete...boy do I feel better!

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Spot on!  Excellent example of Dick Winters and I second your recommendation to read the book and watch the mini-series.  Professional relationships are vital.  These are built on trust and based on experience.  Soldiers respect leaders who uphold values and traditions.  Soldiers respect leaders who genuinely care about them.  To show we genuinely care, we must get to know our subordinates.  We must take care to do so without becoming "buddy-buddy".  A difficult balance?  Sure.  But an important one to find.
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SPC Matthew Birkinbine
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I agree completely Senior Chief. I think it is definitely on us as leaders to set the tone for military culture. One of my favorite mottos anytime I was in a unit was No Slack. I think of the military in that respect, that we should allow No Slack when it comes to enforcement of policies and on the spot corrections. This' what troubled me about the implementation of courtesy patrols at some installations (according to a recent Army Times article). The article stated, an I do agree, that where NCOs used to make on the spot corrections, they seem to be slowing that trend down considerably since the adoption of the Army Combat Uniform. I see this as a branch-wide loss of morale in policing the standard. I still miss my BDUs and black boots!
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By your example.
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