Posted on Dec 21, 2020
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I have a soldier(male) that got his girlfriend pregnant. I am just trying to familiarize myself with any regulations/ procedures that would deal with a situation like this. When can he request BAH/ move out of the barracks? What other things should he need to work on prior to the birth of the child? I know that he will need to enroll the child in DEERS once the child is born, but what can be done before then?
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CSM Darieus ZaGara
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He wil have to wait until after delivery. He will need to be the father on the birth certificate. Moving out of the barracks depends on a couple of factors.

He needs to see the S1 ask the right questions, check with housing and the rest will unfold.
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SSgt Christophe Murphy
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You can’t request BAH for a girlfriend.
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CWO4 Personnel Officer
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Based on the scenario described, the member is currently authorized BAH-Partial due to his current assignment to single-type government quarters, i.e., the barracks. He will not be able to receive BAH at the with dependents rate until he acquires a dependent that qualifies for this BAH type. For instance, through marriage or primary physical custody of the child once he or she is born. He may be authorized BAH-Differential in the event that he pays child support in the future that meets or exceeds the BAH-Differential rate based on his rank; the intent of this BAH is to offset child support costs and should not be confused with other BAH types. He does not meet any requirements in the DoD FMR to rate BAH without dependents at this time. However, the reference delegates aspects of BAH without dependents determinations to the Services, which means that you should consult with your S-1/Administrative Section to be advised on the BAH without dependent process that's applicable to your Service and installation.

In my experience, this would be a case that will not warrant BAH without dependents because the member lacks proper justification to rate this entitlement based on his current situation.

Reference: DoD FMR Vol 7A, Chapter 26

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CSM Charles Hayden Passed 7/29/2025
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SGT (Join to see) Simple! Get married by a legitimate person who is licensed to perform marriages!
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Just because he has a child with her doesn't mean he should marry her. IMO if he loves her then sure.
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Lt Col Jim Coe
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The soldier's best choice is to do the right thing and marry his baby's mother. Once married, I assume the soldier's spouse will be entered into DEERS and he will be allowed to move out of the barracks and collect the with-dependents BAH rate. Not exactly the best way to start a marriage, but it has a chance to work. IMO best option financially for all involved.
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