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<p>It isn't so much that I need a "Chaplain", per se, as much as it is that I'd like to be able to talk to someone who is actually QUALIFIED to be giving me counseling or mental/emotional/psychological guidance or counseling.</p><p> </p><p> I'd much rather have a licensed psychologist than a man or woman who has a degree in bronze age mythology/superstition.</p><p> </p><p>Religion adds too much of a judgemental aspect... There are countless gay Soldiers who need counseling right now who are denied it because they don't meet the approval of their chaplains god of choice... It's a shame.</p>
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Lt Col (Join to see)
It would be nice to have such people to talk to with 100% confidentiality, something that your Mental Health professionals at the on-base clinic do NOT provide.
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SP5 Micah Ilowit
I was a Chaplain's Assistant, and I absolutely agree. It's great that the military has psychiatric social workers, but they aren't imbedded in the battalions the way chaplains are. There are many chaplains who were respectful of others' faith (including humanistic and atheistic beliefs), but the judgment is often there. I would consider myself a secular humanist at this point. I'm not an atheist, per se, but would not feel comfortable seeking counsel from a religious person. I remember my mother was hospitalized while I was deployed and I was told I "need to trust in Jesus." I wasn't trying to go home at all, I just needed a little support, which apparently could not be provided through a Christian lense.
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CW3 Stephen Mills
I agree, Atheist all need a Phycologist. ;-) And just for the record, everything you tell a chaplain is not 100% confidential.
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I would love to have a chaplain to talk to who doesn't try to pray with me, or tell me that they hope I find God.
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A1C (Join to see)
People view oing to mental health as a sign of weakness. From what I've heard it also takes a long time to get an appointment. If someone is having a crisis now they don't want to be preached at, but they need to get help immediately. Sometimes waiting a week or more is too long and we may have lost that person or had them take a different route that leads them to poor decisions that effect their career in a negative way.
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CW5 Sam R. Baker
I have been very fortunate to have what you have wished for, very few have ever tried to PUSH onto me when I merely wished to talk. I hope you find one sooner than later to change your opinion.
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SPC (Join to see)
That's where Chaplains are wrong. They are there to listen and encourage. Love on the troops just as they are.
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I'm probably what you'd call an atheist - although I don't believe any of us knows for sure - but the first person I went to after coming back was the chaplain. Not so much about religion as confidentiality.
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MAJ (Join to see)
Lt Col (Join to see) Too many people don't appreciate this. I was never suicidal, but experienced a lot of death in my personal life and then downrange. It was so nice just to be able to talk to somebody who has experienced a lot of the same and have it all be between the 2 of us. I still consider the chaplain a very close friend and never hesitate just to pop in and say hi occasionally. The chaplain corps is an amazing asset to the armed services.
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Atheists(non-believer) and Chaplains (believer)
Putting those two words together is an oxymoron. Why would an Atheist want a Chaplain?People just want something to complain about.
PROBLEM: An Atheist does not feel comfortable speaking to a Chaplain
SOLUTION: Bypass the Chaplain's office...go straight to your ACS and find a counselor!!!
Many of you are counseled by ACS personnel who are spiritual believers but have no complaint. Yet because a Chaplain wears his badge of honor outwardly you automatically assumes he/she is there to pour out his spiritual belief on you. Stop judging...isn't this what you request spiritual believers to do? Why ye hypocrites!!
While I do understand common sense is not common we should do our best to not be the problem but be the solution of a problem. Let's stop prejudging people based on religion, race, gender, nationality, etc... We are here to help one another. At the end of the day we are all human beings. Regardless of our beliefs we all come into this world by birth and leave the same way...by death.
Putting those two words together is an oxymoron. Why would an Atheist want a Chaplain?People just want something to complain about.
PROBLEM: An Atheist does not feel comfortable speaking to a Chaplain
SOLUTION: Bypass the Chaplain's office...go straight to your ACS and find a counselor!!!
Many of you are counseled by ACS personnel who are spiritual believers but have no complaint. Yet because a Chaplain wears his badge of honor outwardly you automatically assumes he/she is there to pour out his spiritual belief on you. Stop judging...isn't this what you request spiritual believers to do? Why ye hypocrites!!
While I do understand common sense is not common we should do our best to not be the problem but be the solution of a problem. Let's stop prejudging people based on religion, race, gender, nationality, etc... We are here to help one another. At the end of the day we are all human beings. Regardless of our beliefs we all come into this world by birth and leave the same way...by death.
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SSG (Join to see)
Seems like you are the one judging in this instance, too. The issue, if you have not read it, is that chaplains are at the unit level, while counselors are not. Chaplains offer confidentiality for their discussions, but mental health counselors do not. There is a double standard in this, where a person is able to go to a religious counselor (chaplain) and discuss issues that are affecting them, while a person desiring a secular counselor opts for a mental health counselor, which is documented in their medical record. The private conversation, with the chaplain, is not able to be used for any security clearance issues, however the mental health records can be used against the person opting for that route.
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SGT(P) Gloria Francis
SSG Daron Williams,
Chaplains adhere to the military standards. The military understand that their are many religious followings out there. Their religious views are not constructed in their counseling sessions. The only time faith is discussed is when that person brings it up. Chaplains have to marry same sex. There have been a few chaplains I've bumped into who use profanity like nobody's business.
The mental health counselor and chaplain's adhere to the same policy. Only if you intend to harm yourself or others do they have to report it.
Again, it is an OXYMORON to want an atheists chaplain.
Chaplains adhere to the military standards. The military understand that their are many religious followings out there. Their religious views are not constructed in their counseling sessions. The only time faith is discussed is when that person brings it up. Chaplains have to marry same sex. There have been a few chaplains I've bumped into who use profanity like nobody's business.
The mental health counselor and chaplain's adhere to the same policy. Only if you intend to harm yourself or others do they have to report it.
Again, it is an OXYMORON to want an atheists chaplain.
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SGT(P) Gloria Francis
PO3 Damien De Franco,
While you wrote a lot...you said very little.
"Traditionally, a chaplain is a minister, such as a priest, pastor, rabbi, imam or lay representative of a religious tradition, attached to a secular institution such as a hospital, prison, military unit, school, police department, university, or private chapel."
I humbly apologize but I don't really know how to respond or even understood what you were saying.
While you wrote a lot...you said very little.
"Traditionally, a chaplain is a minister, such as a priest, pastor, rabbi, imam or lay representative of a religious tradition, attached to a secular institution such as a hospital, prison, military unit, school, police department, university, or private chapel."
I humbly apologize but I don't really know how to respond or even understood what you were saying.
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SGT(P) Gloria Francis
Again, you're going around in circles. I agree, tradition isn't always right. I was just giving you traditional insight on what a Chaplain is.
Who are you or me to say what helps & hurts others? Hitler thought his simple idea of getting rid of what he didn't agree with was right & wouldn't hurt anyone.
FACT: when you go see a Chaplain it doesn't go into your medical records unless you plan to harm yourself or others. When you go see a counselor it does, however, goes into your medical record. A Chaplain has to refer you to a counselor when/if you need more than social services.
FACT: Chaplain aren't there to baptize you or make you into a religious fanatic. In fact, a chaplain has to perform same sex marriages. I have witnessed Chaplin cursed like nobody's business. Doesn't religious beliefs prohibit those things? My point is Chaplains are there to help EVERYONE regardless of gender, race, nationality, & etc...
I don't know where you've been but chaplains are optional choices.
What if we did get rid of chaplains & replaced them with counselors? Tell me what's the difference between going to a counselor who believes in God & a chaplain who's diverse in all religious/nonreligious aspects?
Come on, we're so busy being hypocrites that we lose sight of the most important thing in this world...RESPECT!!! Let's get back to respecting whatever people want & don't want to believe.
Getting rid of something just because a group doesn't agree with it doesn't solve the problem. Sooner than later you'll have few with that group who disagree & it goes on & on. Again, who are you kidding. You will NEVER get a group of individuals equally happy...NEVER!!!
I say respect & embrace one another's opinions/beliefs. Our beliefs/faith comes from our personal journey we've traveled in life.
Now if we could only get rid of those have no respect for other's beliefs/faith/ideology/thought/&whatever else...
Who are you or me to say what helps & hurts others? Hitler thought his simple idea of getting rid of what he didn't agree with was right & wouldn't hurt anyone.
FACT: when you go see a Chaplain it doesn't go into your medical records unless you plan to harm yourself or others. When you go see a counselor it does, however, goes into your medical record. A Chaplain has to refer you to a counselor when/if you need more than social services.
FACT: Chaplain aren't there to baptize you or make you into a religious fanatic. In fact, a chaplain has to perform same sex marriages. I have witnessed Chaplin cursed like nobody's business. Doesn't religious beliefs prohibit those things? My point is Chaplains are there to help EVERYONE regardless of gender, race, nationality, & etc...
I don't know where you've been but chaplains are optional choices.
What if we did get rid of chaplains & replaced them with counselors? Tell me what's the difference between going to a counselor who believes in God & a chaplain who's diverse in all religious/nonreligious aspects?
Come on, we're so busy being hypocrites that we lose sight of the most important thing in this world...RESPECT!!! Let's get back to respecting whatever people want & don't want to believe.
Getting rid of something just because a group doesn't agree with it doesn't solve the problem. Sooner than later you'll have few with that group who disagree & it goes on & on. Again, who are you kidding. You will NEVER get a group of individuals equally happy...NEVER!!!
I say respect & embrace one another's opinions/beliefs. Our beliefs/faith comes from our personal journey we've traveled in life.
Now if we could only get rid of those have no respect for other's beliefs/faith/ideology/thought/&whatever else...
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Wouldn't an Atheist chaplain just be a social worker or psychologist? I am pretty sure we have access to those.
Also, most Chaplains I know will provide assistance and mental aid, without referencing their religion, if you don't believe and inform them of that.
We had a chaplain who worked across the hall from my funeral honors office who rarely spoke of his religion/God unless we brought it up. He'd generally be playing old school rock and jamming out in his office.
Also, most Chaplains I know will provide assistance and mental aid, without referencing their religion, if you don't believe and inform them of that.
We had a chaplain who worked across the hall from my funeral honors office who rarely spoke of his religion/God unless we brought it up. He'd generally be playing old school rock and jamming out in his office.
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LTC Paul Labrador
Because Chaplains and social workers/psychologists approach the problem in different ways. Psychologists and other clinical folks come from a medical background and are trained to find a "problem", diagnose it, and then prescribe treatment. That is the model they come from. Chaplains come more from the mentor/confidant background where they simply allow you someone to talk to without having to "diagnose" the problem.
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Lt Col (Join to see)
And I will point out, for probably the third or fourth time in this thread, that any facility on the base that provides mental health support does not offer you 100% confidentiality. The chaplain does.
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SP5 Micah Ilowit
Major Williams is right on point. Also, the Chaplain is imbedded with the rest of the troops in a way that counselors are not. When I was in Afghanistan, the chaplain and I would regularly fly out on supply choppers in order to provide semi-regular religious services and, more importantly (in my opinion), counseling and guidance to the guys who were out at the firebases for months at a time with terrible internet and no phone service. There were more than a couple people who would have likely been grateful for a humanistic approach to whatever was ailing them. I wonder if the Unitarian Universalists are represented in the chaplains' corps? That would probably do the trick...
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Why would a person who does believe in any higher power need someone who is going to force religion on them even if they no I do not believe. How about they have a Humanist speak them.
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SSG Gordon Hill
That is your belief, but who are you praying to if it is a higher power how can you call yourself an atheist, but are you actually meditating insteading of praying,
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SGT Leigh Barton
Compliments Major. Whether you believe in a divine being, a divine order,the Flying spaghetti monster, or are just exercising the senses you don't normally use to look at the world around you in all it's glory, it gives you a patience and tolerance that make you a rock to those around you. Rather humbling.
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SSG (ret) William Martin
SSG Hill, Please describe having religion "forced" upon you? Do you mean every time you made contact with a Chaplain he or she tried to convert you or was it because all the "God" talk? I am merely curious.
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SSG Bradley Stevenson
Chaplains do much more than simply provide worship/religious services. I'm an atheist and have found them to be more understanding and easier to talk to than many of my fellow soldiers, some of whom try to force their beliefs and ideology on me.
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I would like to believe that the commissioning requirements for theology majors would be more involved than just throwing some CPT's bars on your shoulders and sending you on your merry way.
The term itself, Atheist Chaplain, seems like an oxymoron. It sounds like the services provided by social workers, psychologists, and the like. ACS has those services, behavioral health has those services. If you're looking for something truly anonymous, Military Family Life Counselors are available and they don't keep ANY records. Though any service where you speak intimately with a counselor will have a stipulation that certain types of talk aren't protected, ie plans to hurt yourself or others.
The system is fine just the way it is. The service is there and available. Perhaps making them more well known through out the ranks would help.
The term itself, Atheist Chaplain, seems like an oxymoron. It sounds like the services provided by social workers, psychologists, and the like. ACS has those services, behavioral health has those services. If you're looking for something truly anonymous, Military Family Life Counselors are available and they don't keep ANY records. Though any service where you speak intimately with a counselor will have a stipulation that certain types of talk aren't protected, ie plans to hurt yourself or others.
The system is fine just the way it is. The service is there and available. Perhaps making them more well known through out the ranks would help.
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I find it somewhat ironic that people who are not atheists purport to know what type of support atheists need. Having spent time with counselors, chaplains and psychologists, the best support came from the (1 of 4) chaplains that tried to empathize with me without bringing in their religious beliefs, but using mine as the foundation for discussion. Unfortunately, in my experience, they are the minority.
Having a chaplain that shares my beliefs, is one step closer to that instant empathy and more importantly, understanding from a perspective that is similar to my own. If you don't think that I, as a fellow servicemember or more to the point, human, deserve that, I've still got your back, but question if I can trust you on my six.
Having a chaplain that shares my beliefs, is one step closer to that instant empathy and more importantly, understanding from a perspective that is similar to my own. If you don't think that I, as a fellow servicemember or more to the point, human, deserve that, I've still got your back, but question if I can trust you on my six.
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That whole 100% confidentiality WITH RANK is a big thing.
As an atheist and an RP I can't stress how important it would be to bring in a Humanist Chaplain for the groups not covered by the Chaplains who are religiously affiliated.
As an atheist and an RP I can't stress how important it would be to bring in a Humanist Chaplain for the groups not covered by the Chaplains who are religiously affiliated.
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