Posted on Oct 29, 2018
Kenny Flack
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My wife is a doctor with a successful practice, so relocating my family is not an option. Otherwise I would go active duty. I’m hoping to serve at the local reserve base in Augusta Ga where we currently live. any information would be greatly appreciated. I’m meeting with a recruiter this week, but I was told not to believe everything they tell me.
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CAPT Kevin B.
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Interesting slant you're asking. My take is likely dated as we used to call them TARs. It seems they want junior ENLs if I read right. There's a few ways you can go, each with its pitfalls. It seems you don't want to go AD because that would mean being a geographical bachelor and I take it to mean you want to see your wife more than that. Going FTS can result in the same thing. Going regular Reserve means the part time thing with the may/may not be a pay billet in your area. A full reserve career with maybe a call-up or two in a 20 year period will maybe net a 20% retirement. If you don't have a significant need for the rating you obtain locally, then you're in a bucket. Don't know what your area is, but I'd also look at Civil Service, State/County, etc. along with profession/trades which are in demand and likely to stay in demand. One thing I did see out there is officers and enlisted shifting to the recruiting side and staying in one location for a career. I know for officers, the trade off is you're capped at O-4. I don't know what the path for ENL is. So you might want to ask the Recruiter about recruiter. The Guard does have some permanent staff types as well. Check them out. Good luck.
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Kenny Flack
Kenny Flack
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Thanks for the info. That Will help a ton when I talk with the recruiter.
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Kenny Flack
Kenny Flack
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If I did go AD, roughly how often do you think I would be able to get home? And would I be able to have family visiting (obviously not at ANYTIME) as often as they can make it to me?
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CAPT Kevin B.
CAPT Kevin B.
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Kenny, it really depends on the type of job and location. As a junior and a geobachelor, you'll more frequently pull the weekend and holiday stuff. It's the nature of the beast. It's also NOT unfair as everyone in one sense or another does their time. You being alone out there have time without home responsibilities as an offset. Location is huge given ease, or lack of air flights at a reasonable cost. Bottom line, it will take you away and keep you away for the most part. I was gone-gone the majority of my first 5 years of marriage. It either makes the marriage stronger or the opposite. If the opposite, then the marriage might not have been the best choice in the first place. The big thing is for the spouse to be honored in their role as the Ground Commander back at home. If the house is still standing when you get back, life is good. Spouses will do things differently than you would, but that's OK; the house is still standing. Re: family visiting, unless there is a location specific prohibition, no big deal. Many places I've been are unaccompanied and no family. Diego Garcia, Antarctica, and a few others come to mind. Interesting enough, when you get senior, there are billets that if you are married, the spouse must accompany you. Those were some jobs overseas where they want a spouse keeping the hammer down on avoiding outside hanky panky that winds up in the media. So for planning purposes, you'll accumulate leave, you'll have some designated long weekends, etc. Working with your CoC to POLITELY schedule knowing if things go into the dumpster, things get changed. I was back from my second deployment to Antarctica and about out the door for my PCS when I got called into the Skipper's office. The Chaplain was there. Seems my relief flunked the shrink test and Skipper wanted me to do a third tour. OK, I'll let my wife know (strong marriage). Back from that and Air New Zealand planted a DC-10 into the side of Mt Erebus. Yup, another dumpster event and back you go. One thing for sure, being a MIL means you live in interesting times.
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Kenny Flack
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Thanks for the tip sgt. being deployed is actually not of concern, I just dont want my wife to have to give up her practice for this.
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